It’s time to overcome

of disability. Let’s be so comfortable in our skin that assistive technologies we use start looking good! The ball is in our court to leave behind issues such as people staring curiously at us, or the terminology used for disability and the narrow mindsets. Education, gadgets, and willpower are our weapons for empowerment.

Second, we will be, without doubt, shaken to the core at times. Life will test us just as it tests everyone. We can either choose self pity or fight like a warrior. Easier said than done, but persist. Rare disease? Persist. Complications? Persist. Different needs? Persist. Too muchadvicefromrelatives and friends? Uninvited suggestions? Yes, you got it!

Third, seek inspiration within and without. If you’ve comeasfarasbeing able to read this article, you are already way ahead. Look at the lives of Sudha Chandran and Manasi Joshi, John Nash and Stephen Hawking. The world is full of examples. Stay motivated. One could begin by reading their biographies, too.

Fourth, with my background in psychology; allow me to highlight how important it is to be happy. Success may not lead to happiness, but happiness will always lead to success. Stay smiling, no matter what. Even when asked about one’s disability, it’s advisable to give a short informative reply with a smile. Let people feel better having seen and felt yourindomitable spirit. For, an indomitable spirit you have.

Last but not the least, remember what tennis ace Martina Navratilova once said, “Disability is a matter of perception. If you can do just one thing well, you’re needed by someone.” Identify your skills, and develop them. It’s easy to dwell on one’s shortcomings but the road to success is never meant for people who look for the easy way. So, get set go, the world is waiting for you!

Signing off with one of my favourite songs: Ruk jaana nahi tu kahin haar ke, kaanto pe chalke milenge saaye bahaar ke.”