‘If you love him, swallow your ego, and chase the guy, now’

I proposed to the girl I love. But, due a mutual friend, who has fallen for her, we can’t get together. She likes me. What should I do? UFO UFO, there was a famous Sage Viclky Batutak, who invented the phrase — One has to be cruel to be Kind. This is because he liked to pluck the hair, one follicle at a time of he head of his prospective brides. Bear in mind that he married 974 times. And each one of his brides was bald as a cannon ball. Now if you like her and she likes you there is no question of cannon balls. In fact, please don’t mention balls to me again. Be a little cruel to our common friend. Tell him the truth and all three of you get on with it. If the friendship is strong all will be well. RN, what was your neighbours exact words. Did she say “You are in the queue”, “Call back in 2 years on Tuesday, Jan 21st at 6:45 pm? Did she mention that if the guy got hit by a bus then please stay in touch” Did she say her PR person would be in touch? I guess not. However, she’s clearly told you she’s in a relationship for quite some time. That’s the same as when you say No to a travelling salesman, who offers to sell you a mixer grinder at a reduced rate. So yes, RN move on, she apparently did two years ago. IR, the question may be well over my qualifications. Initially I was told that this was a column on “How to raise Bonzai Plants in small pokey flats”. Your question on premature ejaculation is way beyond my capacity. For this he must visit a sex expert or andrologist, the cheapest ones are normally found in the distant suburbs. However, it appears to be that he’s just using this as an excuse as he doesn’t want intimacy. The reasons for this lack of interest can vary from lack of desire for women to huge interest in vegetation. I feel you need professional help. A marriage councillor should get him to confront the truth. Act fast before he starts buying plants. Baby Spice of Spice Girls fame once said, “Life is like a traffic Jam” She was banned from speaking in public after this, But let me tell you, Confused Girl, that life is like a traffic jam. You should have taken the left turn when the opportunity presented itself. You did not and now you’re in a traffic Jam. The left turn is gone, but there might be a right turn coming up. I mean I really don’t know. I don’t have the google maps App. Apparently one can’t get that on one’s landline. I suggest if you really love him, you swallow your ego and chase him openly. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. There’s no guarantee of course as time has passed. But, having missed one opportunity try to make one