COMBATING PREJUDICE
Almost every Indian American family in the US has had a discussion about how to avoid a situation like Olathe or Kent and who to approach if they found themselves in one. Here are some moves they are talking about:
Know your neighbours, at least their names, invite them to some Indian community events to show our rich cultural heritage.
Do not cause any inconvenience by playing loud music in and around your home.
Car parking should not block your neighbour’s exits or entrance. Never raise only Indian flag without having American flag next to it.
Respect laws of the land, small things such as lane driving. Many Indian Americans said they were yelled at — with racial slurs — for this.
Educate your visiting parents or guests from India about US culture and traditions in advance before they arrive. For example, do not stare or finger-point Americans especially when they are in swim suits or are engaged in private moments.
Do not converse in a different language in front of them.
Do not touch, hug, kiss or offer any food items — this can be really dangerous because of food allergies — to American children. Do not leave parents/guests from India on their own till they become familiar with the surroundings.
Always keep copies of your legal status ID and cell phone handy Always heed to police officers’ instructions.
If you are in a situation where you cannot protect yourself, do not resist, argue or fight. Always think your life is more precious than your material possession.
If you are faced with a man who is threatening, tell him, I am from India, let me finish my dinner or drink or, better still, join me...If the person is angry, don’t respond, just walk away SUSHIL JAIN, physician who served in US military