‘Men like women to lead’

SERIOUSLY CYRUS

My boyfriend and I mutually agreed to breakup to pursue studies. We have decided to start dating at the end of the year. We have been best friends since then. Nowadays, we rarely talk. I can’t separate myself from him. So, when I ask him to meet me, he just cancels every meeting. Please advise. MM MM, Too much clinical planning is about a bridge or investing in insurance schemes, you are following your heart. That is why the Japanese Kabuli poet P. Sreenath Akira wrote that the heart is mistakenly placed in the chest cavity. Instead it should replace the area where the head is and the head should be placed in the chest cavity. That is also why people with large heads and small chest flounder at romance. By putting off your love for a year you allow for either party to lose the sparkle. He certainly seems to have. I suggest you write him a long letter explaining how you feel and overturn this one year waiting period. Resume active love with immediate effect. Lets hope he responds. But at this stage he must know what your feeling. I have been in love with a girl for a year. I told her about my feelings a few months back, but she said she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment. I want her in my life. I can’t live without her. What should I do? AD AD Attilia the Hun who was known for his bedside manners had the same problem with the first girl he fell in love with. When she spurned his advances he acted in accordance with romantic gestures of his time. He cut off her head. Then he cut off her fathers head. Then he torched the entire village. and then as an act of penance he ate with only one hand, for a whole month. Not his hand but his slaves hand, The right one. Not the night slave. The right hand of his favourite slave 'TanTan' But those were different times, some say happier times. Today you can't do that. So if she's spurned you, by all means give it one more try. Instead of proposing, try chatting with her or maybe even a simple date. If she's still not interested Well then that's it. She not interested. Leave the village alone. A guy loves me a lot, but has never confessed his love for me. He doesn't talk to me, and whenever I talk to him, he's indifferent and behaves strangely. A common friend told me that he is too shy to talk to me. Lately, I've discovered that I've feelings for him and I want both of us to be together. But, I know he won’t propose to me because he's too shy. What should I do? Should I propose to him? PG PG firstly I hope your right. The other day I thought I saw my wife at the airport. So I surprised her on her back. But it turned out to be a guy with hips and long hair. He chased me out of the visitors section with a really ugly chappal in his hand. Clearly our hero is shy. The question is, does he like you . If he does, then there is no harm with you taking the lead. Sometimes men like women to lead. For e.g. Germany, the United Kingdom, possibly USA and my Lions club branch. Hold his hand and guide him. Propose a little later. First get him to respond. I would use an electric charge or a cattle prong. However, you could start with a more subtle option of coffee and conversation for instance. ' I have been in a relationship for the last two years. He is married. I accepted his proposal after six months. He is very possessive about me and doesn’t like me talking to other men. Now, he has broken up with me. I have tried my best to talk to him, but he isn’t responding. I love him a lot. What should I do? PK PK I Think you have mistaken me for some religious leader. Granted a common mistake as I'm always in short pants. But truth be told, I can't really annul his marriage, and force him back to you. I mean I can do one or the other, not both. And I have only one free hand. I'm writing to you with the other. This great man, was cheating on his wife in the first place, and he seems to have had his fill and like all men wants to go back to his safe haven. There's no magic rhyme or portion to get him to commit to you. You are free to try but frankly aren't you happy to be rid of him?