Cherish the time spent with your grandparents

Some of the best memories I have from my childhood days are those that I spent with my grandparents. From listening to their stories, which were magical, or running on the grass barefoot, and catching butterflies together; I still remember all the wonderful moments that we shared together in those wiser and less frantic times.

I benefitted greatly from their guidance that helped me appreciate and accept older people and develop an understanding about the importance of maintaining loving relationships both within and outside our family. And today when I see my two young sons laughing and playing with their grandparents, I feel thankful to God for his invaluable gift. Unfortunately, in modern times, most young adults don’t live with their own parents, as was the case, say, three or four decades ago, and so their children don’t get to benefit from this gift. They miss an essential part of growing up.

A friend who lives abroad makes sure that his three-year-old communicates with his grandparents at least thrice a month . He says that the fast-pace of this 21st century has led to a loss of perspective among youth regarding family values and relationships; so it’s essential that they develop a bond with their grandparents from an early age. “That friendly smile, affectionate look, a word of wisdom or a simple pat at the back for good work done, are the things that go a long way in encouraging young ones to strive to do their best,” says my friend. (Inner Voice comprises contributions from our readers. The views expressed are personal) innervoice@hindustantimes.com n