It takes about a week to make one wig. But once it’s done, it’s yours to play with. “You can change the parting; tie it and style it as you wish, just like you would your own hair,” Bhupatkar says.
You may not think about it much. You might even frown when you look at it in the mirror. But imagine if all you hair were gone. Abhaya* lost hers when she was battling a tumour in the neck a year ago. “I had long, lustrous hair and when the chemotherapy took it, it hit me hard. I didn’t want to face anyone without it. I didn’t feel like myself,” she says. It’s not just women. Sumeet* was diagnosed with a brain tumour at 10 and is now 29. His hair never grew back. “I didn’t like seeing myself in pictures. I was so self-conscious about how I looked,” he says.
Both Abhaya and Sumeet got in touch with NGOs that turn donated hair into wigs for cancer patients. Sumeet poses confidently for pictures now. Abhaya is in remission and her own hair is returning.
Hair is easier to donate than blood or a kidney, but not many people know it’s an option. So NGOs such as Madat Trust, HairAid and Hair for Hope are working to spread awareness online and offline, organising donation drives across the country where they carefully collect donated hair and then take it to affiliated wigmakers, who make the wigs for free.
“Before chemotherapy starts, we generally advise patients to get a wig that resembles their hairstyle,” says Dr Sujata Vasani, oncologist at Mumbai’s Breach Candy hospital. “It’s a relatively small thing, but the relief it can bring is immense.”
Sudha, a 49-year-old doctor, remembers the relief her wig gave her. “I meet new people every day, and with each new patient I had to explain my baldness. Just when I was trying so hard to move on with my life, this made it impossible to set aside my condition,” she says.
All the wig recipients we spoke to had a similar response. It gave me my identity back and made me feel like I was on the road to normalcy again, was the first thing most of them said.
Abhaya was so excited when she got her wig from Madat Trust, that she changed her hairstyle every day and greeted the nurses with questions about how they liked the day’s do. It’s not cancer alone. Donated hair is used to make free wigs for patients who have alopecia or have had extensive brain surgery.
“A good wig costs about Rs 30,000, and the cost of treatment is so high in such cases that even middle-class people often can’t afford one,” says Premi Mathew, founder of Hair for Hope India. “So don’t throw away hair when you get your summer cuts. Come to us, and we’ll use it to bring a smile to a chemo patient.” Trust at copewithcancer.org/hair-donation Madat Charitable or 022-4002-0333
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