Don’t expect a bromance to brew in Washington

As Prime Minister Narendra Modi arrives in Washington this weekend for his maiden tryst with the 45th President of the United States, there is little expectation of a replay of the bromance that had developed with his predecessor Barack Obama.

Shorn of the sideshows that have often featured on Modi’s foreign itineraries, this foray into the Beltway will necessarily be an attempt at taking the mercurial Donald Trump’s temperature when it comes to the bilateral relationship. After all, the current occupant of the Oval Office blows hot and cold.

If while withdrawing America from the Paris climate agreement, Trump’s references to India were pointing to a change of climate in Washington, just this week there were plenty of hints thrown out on matters like a harder line towards Pakistan or a softer approach on H1Bs that may have been a warning of warming.

Since Modi is given to acronyms, this agenda for this visit may be encapsulated thus: Making Out the Donald’s Intentions (or MODI, but obviously). The encounter will be businesslike: Perhaps somewhat like the Art of the Deal meets the Craft of Dhanda.

While Trump views the world through the lens of his America First vision and will bring that to the negotiating table, Modi will have to counter with hard selling of the Indian opportunity, with a large quotient of soft soap given how the American president is often driven by ego rather than logic. In that sense, he will be a difficult customer. The problem with Trump’s unpredictability is that all manner of persuasion is not necessarily a prescription for future friendliness. Both German chancellor Angela Merkel and Canadian PM Justin Trudeau have discovered that congenial conferences at the White House haven’t quite coughed up the returns they may have expected. Even Chinese President Xi Jinping, hosted at Mar-aLago, isn’t in a comfort zone with Trump. For Modi, therefore, the biggest takeaway will be that the coming rebalance won’t upend the gains of the last two decades without quite relying on another mood upswing. That will require savvy marketing of India, a spiel that Trump will buy into, segueing into the latter’s Make America Great Again mantra. That Indian companies have upped investment in the US, or IT majors are increasingly hiring local workers are selling points.

Observers will pay attention to the body language between the two leaders. Just recently, French President Emmanuel Macron was involved in two episodes that indicated Europe is evolving into a separate bloc and out of the shadow of the US. There was the handshake that shook the world between him and Trump and just about a week separated that from the hug with Modi that embraced that emerging polarity.

It will be interesting to see the body language when Modi and Trump meet — a shake, a hug or just a shrug? Business as usual may not be the worst outcome. It is easy to think that others are simply making excuses or are lazy and careless; hence their work seems to lack effort. We often draw our own conclusions about the behaviour and actions of others. Instead, we must try and find out what ails a person. We value self-importance so much that we don’t realise that someone could be facing a situation beyond their control.

One morning, a man’s domestic help failed to turn up on time. The household chores were left undone. When he finally arrived, the man began to reproach him to which the informed that he had lost his daughter the previous night.

Here’s another story: A rich man’s son was lying on the surgeon’s table. The surgeon walked in seriously and completed the task with no word to the father. The man found the conduct of the doctor rude. The nurse told him that the doctor had returned for the funeral of his son who had been party to the same accident in which the rich man’s son was injured.

The same goes for people who may seem to be uncivil and impolite, as if they are ignoring us, but if we take the trouble to find out, the story may be something else. Thus before passing judgment on others’ actions, let us face the facts first.