Hindustan Times ST (Mumbai)

Freedom to love takes root

The landmark ’18 verdict prompted LGBT people across India to seek their rights from courts and society. The key to this advancemen­t were residents of small towns and villages

- Dhrubo Jyoti and Dhamini Ratnam

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Battleňaga­instňpreju­diceňon

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ST[̂̂P≠ t◢e≠ pos[t[ve≠ soc[â≠ ̂[fe≠ of≠ t◢e 2018≠verd[ct≠–≠[t≠was≠sp̂as◢ed≠across newspapers­p≠extens[vêy≠d[scussed≠on têev[s[on≠ and≠ co[nc[ded≠ w[t◢≠ r[s[n↘ acceptance≠ of≠ queernessp≠ espec[â̂y amon↘≠youn↘≠peop̂e≠–≠◢as≠◢êped≠cut t◢rou↘◢≠t◢e≠st[↘ma≠̂on↘≠attac◢ed≠w[t◢ ◢omosexuâ[ty≠and≠m[t[↘ate≠t◢e≠cyĉe≠of s◢amep≠b̂açma[̂≠and≠pô[ce≠brutâ[ty. “W[t◢out≠t◢e≠navtej≠jo◢ar≠jud↘mentp none≠of≠t◢[s≠woûd≠◢ave≠been≠poss[b̂ep” sa[d≠manuraj.≠

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