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Shetty says women also have their notions about why men should make the first move. She says, “When men make the first move, it makes women feel wanted. It also fulfills their romantic notions of men going on their knees and proposing them. This may also make them feel safe magazinei iin 20042004, “WWe were a couple hours into the flight, and we’d been talking the whole time, stuff about life, wanting to have kids, the future and everything like that. It was an intimate conversation. And we’d always talked about how some people don’t have to get married when they’re in love. Then all of a sudden I said, ‘ What if you want to get married?’ And I kind of went from there to asking him if he would marry me. I asked him... He said no because he thought it wasn’t the right way to do it.” It’s difficult to spot womens’ first move. They rely on gestures such as frequent eye contacts, a smile, brushing their hair, hanging on to every word of the conversation and laughing more often while talking to a man. They would then wait for the man to make his move. Feminine moves are well covered, so it becomes difficult for men to identify them. It can be very subtle like a simple compliment such as, ‘Hey, you have a nice shirt’, or ‘You have a nice smile’. But, in today’s world where women are walking hand-in-hand with men, the first moves from females could be just compliments or other friendly gestures and nothing more. However, some women might initiate bold conversations, which some men find attractive. At the same time it could be a turn off for some.