Online Misogyny
are not socialized to accept gender equality. We don’t inculcate a gender sensitive approach in our children. Boys are made to believe that they are superior and girls are inferior. When such boys grow up they harbor a misogynistic attitude and it is reflected in their expressions over social media and other such platforms,”Qayoom said.
Dr Shazia Malik, Assistant Professor in the Department of Gender Studies, Kashmir University shared similar views saying that cyberspace violence against women is a clear manifestation of violence against women that happens offline. She said that the anonymity of the web becomes a cloak for some to unleash a torrent of harassment on women.
“Our rapidly changing world can be confusing, particularly for young people. The imbalance between traditional cultural beliefs and the demands of modern life is evident. While individuals might treat women they know with respect in person, encountering them online in unfamiliar situations can sometimes trigger judgmental attitudes based on patriarchal norms predefined rules for women in general,” Malik said.
“I personally believe that it also serves as a deterrent for women using social media platforms in a way that they remain non-existent. For example, women usually keep profiles anonymous and share less or no pictures at all.”
In highlighting the potential role of clerics, she underscored the importance of their influence being directed towards promoting gender equality and empowering women, rather than reinforcing harmful patriarchal norms.
Naireen, a psychologist at the Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences (IMHANS), Srinagar said that trolling, particularly in Kashmir, can have a deep psychological effect on women.
“Online trolling makes them doubt themselves, they feel insecure and question their value. This cyberbullying can have a huge impact on their self-esteem, body image and mental well-being leading to anxiety and even depression,” Naireen said.
She further said that cyberbullying can also have lasting emotional effects, even after the bullying stops and can leave deep scars and impact a person’s overall well-being.
“It’s crucial that we address this issue and work towards creating a more positive and inclusive online space,” Naireen added.
Naireen advised to deal with online trolls by not responding, but blocking or reporting them instead. Netizens, especially girls should surround themselves with positivity, take breaks, and prioritize mental well-being. Shine bright and don’t let trolls dim your sparkle!