LETTING IT BE

Matter Some people believe that the ability to change is a sign of great strength – however, there are times when it takes much more strength to let things be as they are

My son declared that he is gay. My husband asked him to leave the house and ever since, I don’t know where he is! I’m worried about him and sometimes feel guilty about the situation too.

I’m so sad this has happened – sad for your son, who must be devastated, but also sad for you. Forget your foolish pride or the opinions of outsiders. Look deep into your heart and realise that your son needs you, your love, acceptance and support to find happiness in his life. Realise that anyone who judges your son and your love for him negatively is not worth your attention. Find your son, confess your sin of pride and your fear of being ostracised, and bring him back into the arms of a

loving mother. I wish you strength to overcome your prejudice and let the

love back into your heart.

My father is having an affair. He seldom comes home and our family is shattered. I’m a student in college and helpless. Please suggest.

It must be really difficult for your mother and you, yet there is very little you can do. Try and have an open chat with your father and tell him the mental agony you all are facing. If nothing else, then the best decision is to let him be. As a mature man, he is aware of his duties and the effect of his decision. If he is unable to comprehend and acts selfish, it is really upsetting. Be your mother’s strength and do whatever you can to take care of her. She needs you the most. Don’t lose hope. Time and patience often yield the best results.

I am 24 and in relationship with a girl since 5 months. But my girlfriend keeps talking about her ex. How do I make her stop talking about the other guy? I need your advice.

Sometimes people do things unintentionally, unknowingly. Please stop fuming over this communication gap and try telling her how you feel. Express and be vocal about it. I am sure she will understand and you both will be fine together. Just be open about your feelings and don’t worry so much. Love is always meant to go a long way if it is true. Talk it out, sort it out and sail smoothly. Good luck.

My wife had a promotion at work and now earns much more than me. She acts bossy and rude. What can be done? I’m very worried about us.

If you are sure that her financial strength is the reason for your unhappiness, please try and work some better arrangements. I do not know your profession but in today’s time, multiple sources of earning is becoming vital for survival. In the mean time, try and express your concern to her. If she loves you, she might change her behaviour. She needs to understand that your support is her strength too. Don’t try to fight and make matters worse. Be patient and lovable. Don’t lose heart and be brave enough to be happy at whatever cost. Good luck.

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mean? I find it on almost all packaging from cakes to ice-cream, bread to meat, medicine tablets to biscuits.

I don’t know either. As of now, it is just a clever marketing gimmick which has discovered that humans hate the word chemical and are drawn to things that are from nature directly. But after decades of debate, there remains no generally accepted definition of a ‘natural’ food product. Regulatory agencies have refused to settle the issue. An oatmeal product At this point in your life you are whole and are ready to show yourself to the world. There is beauty all around you. Enjoy this beauty. Cultivate your own nature by spending time with yourself. Even when everything around you is beautiful, there are some painful truths which will come out in front of you. This week you are being reminded to enjoy the harvest of nature’s gift. All your wishes will come true, so wish carefully. Do not talk negatively or have any ill intentions towards yourself or any others as this will also be manifested into reality. Be proud of what you have achieved as you have come a long way. You are starting on a new path which is likely unknown to you. All those who are around you will be helping you through this journey. Always remember that growth requires nurturing and care from many sources. New seeds of growth will be planted right now. You will feel connected to the roots. At this point in time, anxiety is poking at you and is telling you how bad you are and how you are not doing what you are supposed to do. You are hoping that this period will pass soon. What appears harmful to you only be a figment of your imagination only in your mind. Keep calm. You have been facing some issues in your life lately. You are trying to cope with these issues by making decisions. However, the need of the hour is to stay alone. it is okay to know spend time alone. You may feel that you are being left behind but it is necessary for you to self introspect at this point. You have all the tools you need right now to achieve what you want to. Using the tools for the right purpose is important. You will have a lot of power and hence self control will be necessary for you right now. Self knowledge is also vital for you at this point. Everyone will help you when you need support. seems more natural than processed wheat but it uses as many chemicals and pesticides as anything else. Some people mistake natural for vegetarian but many products have extracts of meat and still call themselves natural. An ice-cream promotes itself as natural but uses flavour extracts. Even the sugar substitute which is clearly chemical claimed it was made from natural ingredients till it was taken to court.

What is needed is a series of law suits against food items that use the term so that, in time, food advertising and packaging will become more truthful. Government also needs to formulate a definition for the meaning of natural.

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gmail.com) Let go of what you have and give it back to the world. This week you will be able to manifest all your wishes into reality, especially those associated with the heart chakra and love. Things you no longer need, give it back to the world. Look at the celestial lights to steady your path. This week you are being guided to hone your creative talents so that they will inspire all those who will witness it. Your creativity will be at its all time best. Your personality will be very fiery and assertive. You will be able to take charge of all that is happening. Use your creativity to solve issues. It takes a lot of practice to get good at something. You have been practicing and will be creating wonderful things soon. Mastery comes from putting in hard work. You will be victorious in all that you do. New ideas that you put into practice will bring you a lot of success and prosperity. You are currently facing a challenge but you are very determined to succeed in it. You have your eyes completely open and can look at the challenge from all perspectives. As long as you know what is going around you, you will have an upper hand. Observe everything around in your surrounding. You are whole and are ready to show yourself to the world right now. There is beauty all around you. Enjoy this beauty. Spend time with yourself to cultivate your own nature. There are some painful truths which will come out in front of you amidst all this beauty that surrounds you. Love yourself for who you are. The message to you this week is that you will be able to make beauty out of nothing. Remember that when you do something you love doing, others will appreciate it, even if it doesn’t last. There will be a deep sense of accomplishment within you. Do not waste time admiring.