No space

When the joy and excitement of a new relationship subsides, that’s when one realises that there are issues that haven’t been spoken about or for that matter even noticed while the rose- tinted glasses were firmly on. Among the most common grouses is the lack of space or the infringement of one’s time alone. This is particularly a problem when one of the two people in the relationship doesn’t think it is a big deal and the other wants to just run far away to get some breather from this person. Most people in a new relationship do not want to be the first person to pick a fight, so their lack of space problem manifests in other ways. They may either seem less likely to meet as frequently as earlier or might turn more physically frigid in an otherwise intimate set up. Recognise body language — it is the most effective way to find out whether or not there’s a problem that hasn’t been spoken about yet.