The Asian Age

‘ Saddest photo’ of elderly couple goes viral

- JEREMY HAINSWORTH

A photograph of a crying elderly Canadian couple in wheelchair­s, separated into two different care homes after 62 years of marriage because no beds were available together, has received internatio­nal attention.

Wolfram Gottschalk, 83, of Surrey, British Columbia, was put in an assisted living home in January after he suffered dementia health complicati­ons making it impossible for wife Anita, 81, to care for him at home.

Four months later, Anita entered a different facility despite family efforts to keep them together.

The facilities are halfanhour apart, with family driving Anita to see Wolfram several times a week.

Granddaugh­ter Ashley Bartyik took “the saddest photo I have ever taken” when her grandparen­ts were brought together recently. She notes that he reaches and cries out for her.

Wolfram was diagnosed with lymphoma on Aug. 23. Now, the family is desperate for the couple to be together to live out their remaining days.

“I see desperatio­n,” Bartyik said. “I see people married for 62 years pulled apart by a system. I see the love they have for each other.”

She took to social media to draw attention to the family’s plight and said the family had been working

Canadian couple, separated into two different care homes after 62 years of marriage because no beds were available together, has received internatio­nal attention

to find a care home to accommodat­e both grandparen­ts.

But the couple’s immediate health concerns led them to be put in separate facilities.

“It’s a little bit of a broken system right now,” Bartyik said.

She said the first call from the local health authority came Aug. 25, after the photo received internatio­nal attention. “We were told he is a top priority,” Bartyik said.

She said Anita is more aware of what is happening than her husband. She said her grandfathe­r’s dementia is growing and the family is afraid Wolfram soon won’t remember Anita.

“With the news of cancer, our fight to have them in the same facility is even more urgent,” Bartyik said. Fraser Health spokespers­on Tasleem Juma said the authority tries to keep families together but that Wolfram’s care needs are higher than Anita’s.

She said a facility must meet both patients’ needs, and the authority expects to complete that work in several weeks.

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