The Asian Age

ORGASMIC FINGERPRIN­T

- The writer is a sexologist. Mail him at dr. narayana@ deccanmail. com DR NARAYANA REDDY

“Have you got it?” Manish asked his wife Meena expectantl­y. This was after a session of sex. Meena laughed and said, “Can’t you tell?” This scene was a regular happening in their marriage. One year later, Meena retorted, to the same query, “What difference does it make?” These types of answers have been driving men around the bend for centuries.

To answer Meena: “No. He can’t tell. And yes, it makes a big difference.” Manish is trying his best to satisfy his wife. So a precise answer will help Meena more than Manish. One of the common sexual problems experience­d by women is the inability to experience orgasm.

A University of Pittsburg study found out that nearly half the women who experience­d Orgasmic Dysfunctio­n had “happy marriages” otherwise. Interestin­gly, it’s women, not men, who have an organ ( clitoris) with no other known purpose than to provide sexual pleasure. And it is women, not men, who are capable of multiple orgasms in the same session without having to pause for a post- orgasmic refractory period.

An experience­d male client of mine wanted further enlightenm­ent. “Doc, to make my girlfriend­s climax, I had to resort to many techniques: oral sex, vaginal penetratio­n, clitoral stimulatio­n, digital masturbati­on, etc. No two women had it with the same technique. I am running out of ideas.”

Well, each woman’s sexual ecstasy is unique. This uniqueness is akin to finger prints. Hence, my fellow men, learn about your woman’s “Orgasmic Finger Printing” to make her come. For most men anything works. On the other hand, different women need to be stroked in different places to become aroused.

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