You control your life

QDear Pampaa,

I am a senior citizen retired from an MNC in 2013. I love travelling and am fashion- conscious. I am Bengali, married to an Iyenger. During my childhood, despite financial constraints, my parents never deprived me from wearing good clothes. After retirement, my life has become hell as my husband controls every small purchase of mine, and uses very abusive language. I have developed suicidal tendencies and hate my husband now. I would like to know if there is any foreign trip for me in future as I want to travel and am feeling very suffocated in my present situation.

Name withheld on request

DOB: 28/ 02/ 1955

Dear,

Cards say this marriage was in your destiny. Cards say something has been majorly wrong from your side which instigates his anger. Consciously or sub- consciously, you have always considered him to be inferior to you. Please change that, give him his due respect, and appreciate his qualities. The current problem regarding your spending money is temporary. You feel your hubby wants to control you. And he feels you are self- obsessed. Your stars and your hubby’s stars will realign from October this year, and things will be better. Both of you will go abroad for vacation in mid- December this year.

Guidance from Universal Wisdom: Your husband needs to practice meditation and become a wiser person. You need to work on being more patient, tolerant and kind. You need to believe that it’s you who controls your life, and stop blaming your husband if there is anything wrong with your life.

The writer is a tarot expert. You can mail your queries to Pampaa at selfdecoder@ gmail. com