DIFFERENT PACE OF DEVELOPMENT

Q I wear briefs even at night while sleeping. Please suggest me the ideal briefs.

Use briefs only when you have to go out or while exercising. Don’t wear them at home all the time. Strictly avoid wearing one while sleeping. Also, only cotton underwear should be used as only cotton can absorb sweat. The used undergarments should be washed thoroughly and sun dried. Care should be taken to ensure the undergarments are comfortable and not too tight.

Q Although my son is 12 years old, his penis is the same size as it was when he was born. Other than that he is physically fit. I have another son who is 12, and his penis seems to be of the normal size. Is something wrong with my other son?

If your son is otherwise healthy then you need not worry. The genital development will occur at different paces for different individuals, even if they are siblings. However, it is advisable to get your son examined by a doctor.

Q I am a 19- year- old boy sexually involved with a 31- year- old woman. I had sex with her twice. If I continue having a sexual relationship with her, will I face any problem?

What type of problems are you envisaging — medical, sociological or psychological? If she has no sexual infections, you are safe medically. However, with so much age difference between you and your partner, you may not be able to vibe emotionally, on a long term basis with her.