The Free Press Journal

Devotees must find a worthy guru

- Bhavdeep Kang The author is a senior journalist with 35 years of experience in working with major newspapers and magazines. She is now an independen­t writer and author

Sexual exploitati­on of women by godmen is a recurring theme in India's crime chronicles. Rarely are the godmen held accountabl­e, least of all by their own followers. Even when the evidence against the guru in question is substantiv­e enough to merit judicial custody, his flock suffers no diminution of faith. Crying rape against a godman takes courage, because the victim runs the risk of provoking his followers or at best, being ignored. The young woman who bobbitised her guru and alleged tormentor, Swami Ganeshanan­d, had found her own mother disincline­d to believe that the guru could have erred.

Swami Nithyanand­a Paramhansa of Karnataka continues to enjoy a considerab­le following, despite being jailed briefly for allegedly molesting female devotees, by claiming that moksha could be sought through sexual union. A 430-page chargeshee­t was filed against him by the Karnataka police in 2010 following an investigat­ion into charges of rape by a young inmate of his ashram. Asaram Bapu is less fortunate, still in jail after a 16-year-old girl accused him of raping her at his ashram in Jodhpur in 2013. Yet, many devotees still keep the faith. The high-profile godman from Punjab, Gurmeet Ram Rahim, faces trial in a rape case (not to mention various other charges and investigat­ions, including the castration of some 400 members of his flock) but continues to command a following of millions and project himself as a rock star in films and music videos.

The case of the godman from Karnataka, Swami Raghaveshw­ara Bharthi, head of the Ramachandr­apura Mutt, is even more curious. He turned the tables on a devotee who maintained that he had sexually exploited her for years. She and her husband were arrested for allegedly blackmaili­ng the swami, before she could file a complaint. After a long struggle and political interventi­on at the highest levels, she was able to get an FIR registered, but the case was eventually dismissed.

The woman in question was married and a mother of two, yet claimed to have been sexually abused for three years. Victims often come forward after years of alleged exploitati­on, saying they kept silent because of fear of reprisal, coercion or brain-washing. For the judiciary, the time lapse makes it difficult to assess whether the 'victim' was a consenting partner in the alleged relationsh­ip. The late Sathya Sai Baba of Puttapurth­i and Maharishi Mahesh Yogi also faced allegation­s of prolonged sexual abuse in their time.

Rationalis­ts find it strange that the guru's flock defends him to the hilt, no matter how heinous the charges against him. When regulatory agencies act on complaints, they are accused of furthering political or personal vendettas. The 'myguru-can-do-no-wrong' perspectiv­e is testimony to the dependence of the follower on the spiritual preceptor. As the recent incident in Kerala indicates, even the alleged victim's family would prefer to accept the guru's version rather than that of a blood relative.

The purity of the guru must be maintained, for the followers' sake as much as his own. The sweeping socio-economic changes of the last few decades have contribute­d to the centrality of the guru in the lives of ordinary people. A rapidly transformi­ng society creates enormous stresses and the guru serves as a safety valve. Even among the economical­ly well-off sections, affluence has not translated into satisfacti­on with their lives. Traditiona­l rituals do not offer the alltoo elusive peace of mind, which brings them to the representa­tive of the divine, the guru.

In the past, every village or community had a guru who served as spiritual preceptor, astrologer, family confidante and even business advisor. No marriage or major entreprene­urial foray went forward without his consent. Royalty was no exception; every monarch had his Raj guru. The dislocatio­n of communitie­s, break-up of families and the atomisatio­n of society enhanced the importance of the guru, who became the first and last port of call for the mentally distressed.

In a country where visiting a psychologi­st, therapist, or any species of mental health profession­al is still not free of stigma, the guru assumes the role of counsellor. Spirituali­ty seems to offer an answer to the dissonance and resulting stresses of modern life. By submitting to a guru, the follower surrenders agency and thus, responsibi­lity for his or her own mental well-being. The burden of decision-making, for oneself or for the family, is transferre­d to the guru.

In the absence of an organized religious structure, just about anyone can don saffron and become a guru, claiming to have received diksha from a spiritual leader of note. The scope for abuse of trust by self-styled godmen is thus enormous. All godman have devotees in high places, which often places them outside the pale of law. It is for the devotee to exercise discretion and place his faith in a worthy guru, rather than a charlatan in saffron.

THE young woman who bobbitised her guru and alleged tormentor, Swami Ganeshanan­d, had found her own mother disincline­d to believe that the guru could have erred. Rationalis­ts find it strange that the guru's flock defends him to the hilt, no matter how heinous the charges against him. When regulatory agencies act on complaints, they are accused of furthering political or personal vendettas.The 'my-guru-can-do-no-wrong' perspectiv­e is testimony to the dependence of the follower on the spiritual preceptor. As the recent incident in Kerala indicates, even the alleged victim's family would prefer to accept the guru's version rather than that of a blood relative

 ??  ?? Swami Ganeshanan­d lying in a hospital
Swami Ganeshanan­d lying in a hospital
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