Prayer Secrets
In his book A Year of Living Prayerfully, Jared Brock describes in a humorous but poignant way his journey around the world to discover and explore how different believers pray—their practices, methods, habits, and styles. More than compile a list of techniques, he wanted to experience prayer in full from different perspectives and denominational outlooks. So he and his wife dedicated an entire year to the task.
Among other places, his travels took him to:
• Ontario, Canada, where a prayer strategies specialist told him of the spectacular answers to prayer he has witnessed.
• New York, where he learned the prayer traditions of Hasidic Jews.
• Jerusalem, where he visited the different sites and churches and learned about traditional and ritualistic prayer, and realized that prayer isn’t the practice of the right poses, but a relationship you pursue.
• Mount Athos in Greece, where the resident Orthodox monks consider prayer to be the art of arts and science of sciences and find inspiration in simple living and repetitive prayers.
• Spain, where he immersed himself in mysticism.
• France, where he visited the Carmelite monastery and saw where Brother Lawrence had turned common tasks into times of prayer, as described in The Practice of the Presence of God. Then on to Taizé, an international ecumenical gathering place where Catholic, Protestant, and
Orthodox Christians pray together in peace and unity.
Brock relays that he tried to find quick, easy and efficient ways to come to God, but found that the true meaning of prayer is just being with God.
We don’t have to go around the world to learn about prayer like Brock did. We just have to learn to connect with God by using the approaches that work best for us. The important thing is being with God, or talking with Him, regardless of the method we employ.
For some it could be a sung prayer, for others a written prayer. Many times, all we can do is send a short prayer; other times it’s good to take longer to pour out our hearts, followed by a time of silence to hear what God may speak to our hearts in reply.
Sometimes our prayers will be very eloquent and articulate; other times, we find ourselves tongue-tied or stammering. Not to worry. God hears every prayer and makes sense of each one, even those that sound clumsy or fuzzy.
Sometimes we feel like expressing ourselves with our plain candid words; other times we might want to pray with the Scriptures, paraphrasing Bible verses or the Psalms.
At times we might yearn for a solemn place like a church or a sanctuary or a beautiful natural spot where we can easily disconnect from the noise and distractions of the world; other times we might be walking down a busy street and sending prayers up for the people we pass or for a friend or a relative in need or for the sad state the world is in.
Variety is the spice of life, and it’s also the spice for prayer. Follow routines that help you concentrate and be regular, but also venture out and try different methods, or pray in different places, or with different people. Learn from others’ experiences.
God’s Word does give us some guidelines, such as:
It is the quality, not the quantity of our prayers that count. He is more concerned with sincerity than eloquence. He hears every prayer that comes from the heart, and often answers in ways we would have never imagined. It pays to trust in Him.