Black mother gives birth to a white daughter with blue eyes
Like many mothers when Sophia Blake gave birth to her daughter Tiara she expected she would bear more than a passing resemblance to her.
Tiara’s father, Christopher Perkins, 60, a retired sales manager, is white but at the very least they thought their baby girl would be a mixture of both of them, dailymail.co.uk reported.
So they were shocked when Tiara was born white and blueeyed.
They thought Tiara’s hair and skin would darken as she grew older. Instead it has remained the same and their daughter has grown into a beautiful — albeit white, blue-eyed — little girl.
Doctors say the chances of Tiara, four, being as white as her father are an incredible million to one.
But the fact that mother and daughter don’t look anything alike is causing difficulties — because people do not believe they are even related.
To make matters worse, Blake, 45, has a daughter Donchae, 17, from a previous relationship with a black man and she is black like her mother.
“I can’t walk down the road with Tiara without someone making a comment, said Blake, a marketing executive from Selly Oak, Birmingham. “People simply don’t believe Tiara is my little girl because she looks so completely different.
“When she was very tiny I didn’t mind so much. But as Tiara has grown older, it has become more of a problem.
“Until I had Tiara I didn’t appreciate how much we all identify ourselves with being white or black — and the issue now is Tiara has a black family but looks white. Sometimes she says, “Why don’t we look alike mommy?” I explain she is mixed race but it is very confusing for her.”
Blake, who is estranged from her daughter’s father, believed she would give birth to a baby with dark skin and afro hair.
She said: “Black skin is usually dominant and my family, which hails from Jamaica, is very black. But at the very least I thought Tiara would be a mixture of Christopher and myself.
“I was so shocked when she was born I actually said to the midwife, ‘Is she mine?’ I simply couldn’t get over her being so pale and blue-eyed. Doctors explained it was a million to one chance that Tiara was so white and it was likely there was a white gene in my family which had remained dormant until now.”
Since then mom and daughter have been bombarded with attention wherever they go.
“I’ve read about white babies being born to black moms before,” said Blake, “but the child still has afro hair and features — which Tiara doesn’t. She has naturally long straighter hair.
“I do get tired of explaining she is my daughter. But even doctors and teachers seem confused. For example, when I recently visited our doctor’s surgery the GP wanted to check if I was Tiara’s social worker or guardian.
“When I told him sternly that I was Tiara’s mother, he was incredibly embarrassed and apologized profusely but it happens all the time.”
A recent hurdle was when Tiara started school. “When Tiara ran out of class and shouted ‘mom’ to me I knew what those mothers who don’t know me were thinking — that Tiara must be adopted.
“And the situation is even more pronounced when I go out with my mother, other daughter Donchae and Tiara, because the fact we are all dark emphasizes how white she is.”
Despite this, Blake — who has decided to speak out to raise awareness that mixed race children can also be very white or very black — says she and Tiara are ‘peas in a pod’ when it comes to personality.
“We are both extrovert, independent with a quirky sense of humor. And once people get to know us well they say we are very alike!”
She added: “And maybe as her mom I’m biased but I do think she is so beautiful and I am just so proud.”