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FIRST DATES AND HOW TO AVOID LE KISS - OFF

- BY JAMES DRAPER

WE’VE all seen the advert for probably the best lager in the world where the actor discusses the best way to greet someone before clinking his glass or bottle. It’s the Danish Way!

But how does the rest of the world do it and what are the dating rules to follow so as not to end up having to leave before you finish your first drink?

Language-learning app Babbel (www.babble.co) reveals how others do it.

FRANCE

It’s good manners to kiss your potential suitor on both cheeks, going from left to right. Do this instead of hugging.

Then, while wooing over dinner, it’s generally expected that you’ll avoid discussing ex-partners, but feel free to playfully debate money, politics and religion.

Oh, and when you’re done, split the bill.

POLAND

In Poland, most people hug – so no need to navigate any awkward cheek-kissing.

Opt for a glass of wine, rather than a bottle, and be sure to pay equal halves.

Acceptable topics of conversati­on can vary on who you’re with, so play this one by ear.

ITALY

It’s considered Europe’s most passionate place, but Italians have rules for romance-hunting.

Don’t talk about exes, and steer clear of health-related issues.

In terms of where you go on your date, that’s pretty casual and can be decided on a whim.

RUSSIA

Whoever asked for the date usually pays for it.

There are no frowned-upon subject matters.

The initiator should accompany the invited person home and order them a taxi.

THE NETHERLAND­S

Three cheek-bump-kisses are expected if you know someone.

But if it’s a stranger any greeting goes, from a ‘hoi’ (hi), an awkward hug or three kisses.

They don’t like talk of exes and tend to split the bill.

AUSTRALIA

Most dates happen in busy bars and restaurant­s.

So, feel free to suggest an alfresco experience such as a parkland walk or sunshine stroll.

And, although the Aussies produce fine wine, it’s OK to order beers on your first date – then split the bill.

BRAZIL

Old-fashioned manners are the order of the day. Men are expected to pick-up the tab.

The only one real taboo is talking about money.

Preferred greetings depend on region. In Rio, you kiss twice. In general, always kiss and never go for the handshake.

GERMANY

Like the Italians, Germans have similar boundaries for dates. Avoid discussing exes, money, politics, health and religion. Fortunatel­y, you can drink as much as you like and meet anywhere you fancy.

SPAIN

Unlike the French, the Spanish prefer a single kiss on the cheek.

They’ll also be unimpresse­d if you mention your finances, faith or political allegiance­s.

That said, ordering a full bottle of wine (rather than a glass) is preferred and also ‘go dutch’.

SWEDEN

Going for a coffee or a beer is preferred to going to a restaurant.

Don’t discuss previous ro-mances.

Oh, and as they’re obsessed with equality, it’s politicall­y correct to divide the bill equally.

NORWAY

You probably wouldn’t go for dinner on the first date.

A verbal greeting is preferred if you haven’t met the person before, otherwise it’s a brief hug.

Opt for a glass of wine, rather than a bottle, and split the bill.

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