Irish Daily Mail

You are what you think... so avoid poison of negativity

- Dr Mark Dooley mark.dooley@dailymail.ie

IT has become something of cliché to say: ‘You are what you think.’ But isn’t that precisely the nature of a cliché, that it contains a core of truth? And who can deny that reality is essentiall­y shaped by our thoughts?

That’s right: the way you think directly influences the way you experience the world. You have a stream of negative thoughts driven by anger, sadness or foreboding. Not only will everyone around you be affected by these thoughts, but the world itself will appear threatenin­g, unkind and inhospitab­le.

Worse still, such thoughts will have a negative impact on the body. You may not be able to touch a thought, but its effects are apparent everywhere. The artist thinks of his dead mother and produces a painting rich with heartfelt emotion.

Likewise, when your thoughts are full of pain, anguish or fear, they will manifest in pain, anguish and fear. People can, quite literally, worry themselves to death. The tortured thought very often translates into a tortured body.

I would even go so far as to say that negative thoughts are poison. Fill your mind with them and, sooner or later, they will pollute your bloodstrea­m. Some of the worst diseases have their source in black thinking.

Children are particular­ly threatened by this poison. They hear bad news or watch something dark and their little minds become deeply troubled. What they ingest through the eyes can release deadly toxins in mind and heart.

Put something bad into a tender mind and it is almost impossible to get it out again. One image can lead to a lifetime of tormenting thoughts. And when a mind is that tormented, a person’s health must inevitably suffer.

What you think is what you are. That is why you must let the sun shine in your mind. You must draw aside the drapes and let the light in.

It is true that the world is full of hardship, despair and suffering. Some will say that this is reality and we should not shy away from it. But how can we help change the world unless we – you and me – bring peace and joy into the midst of pain.

Wherever there are negative thoughts, there is pain and misery. Wherever there are positive thoughts, there is health, beauty and kindness. There is happiness that heals both body and mind.

The world of the positive person is bright and fresh. Good thoughts have created a reality that is lifegiving and wholesome. In this light, the toxins of negative thinking cannot survive.

None of us can hope to change the world overnight. All we can do is try to change our own little patch of earth. That means letting the sun shine on all who live and surround you.

We tend to think it will be a beautiful day if the sun shines outside. But we all know that even if it is a summer scorcher, our world can still be very black. A really beautiful day is one where the sun shines inside.

The rain may pour, and the winds may howl, but, if you let the sun shine from within, it shall be a glorious day.

Yes, the storm clouds may gather in the mind, but, so long as you continue to look on the bright side, they will soon disperse.

FOR that is the power of positive thoughts: they bring happiness, healing and harmony to all who bask in their glow. I know a man who is suffering with a serious disease. Many of us, were we in a similar plight, would simply succumb to our suffering. He, however, is living life to the optimum.

To be in his company is to be filled with joy. He smiles and laughs and lifts people’s spirits to the stars. He is a radiant source of sun and light.

Be like that and watch how your circumstan­ces change. Where there was hatred, you will find love. Where there was despair, you will find hope. And where there was sadness, you will savour joy.

You are what you think because the thoughts of a single person can make or break a life. If we choose to dwell in the dark, we risk the health and happiness of those we love most. Our world becomes a place where the sun never shines.

But if we opt to think in love and peace, our homes will become sanctuarie­s of healing and sunlight.

From a beautiful mind will flow a beautiful life.

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