LINDA MOONEY

Psychic agony aunt and angel therapist

Linda Mooney is a leading angel therapy practitioner with fifteen years’ experience, trained and certified by Doreen Virtue an international expert in this field. Linda specialises in the healing aspect of angel therapy helping people to engage with their angels to find inner peace and healing. Email Linda at linda@dailymail.ie or write to Linda Mooney, Irish Daily Mail, Third Floor, Embassy House, Dublin 4

QUESTION

Dear Linda, My partner of six years admitted to me recently that he was unfaithful. I am devastated. I moved out and am staying with a friend. He says it was a one-off and is deeply sorry, and had to tell me as he couldn’t live with the guilt. He refused to discuss how it happened or who the person was.

However, he says he feels he has given me sufficient time to get over it, and that it’s either time to move on or forget the whole thing and start again.

My friend tells me I would be a fool to start over, that I could never trust him again. I love him dearly, but am not sure if I can forgive and forget. Would I be making a bigger mistake giving him a second chance, to maybe find out that he will break my heart all over again? C.

ANSWER

Dear C, Firstly knowing the gory details will not make you feel any better or undo what has happened. Only you know what is right for you and your relationship. Your partner could have, and possibly should have, kept the information to himself. That said, he has been totally honest and up front with you. Whether it was to ease his conscience or genuinely not want secrets in your relationship is a call for you to make.

Weighing up the investment in your six-year relationship against a one-off mistake may help you put things into perspective. Going back will require a lot of work on forgiveness, and not shaming and blaming. You may never forget, but you can forgive in time, and move on if that is what you truly desire.

÷ FIRST CARD: NO WORRIES

The angels understand your worries are your way of trying to control the situation, and to think of ways to create a better outcome. Yet, would you still worry if you knew that it was making the situation worse? Worry, after all, is a call for negative results. It affirms the worst case scenario.

Your desire for a healed outcome is better addressed through surrendering the entire situation to God and the angels. Then ask for guidance and intervention.

÷ ADVICE/OBSTACLE: FORGIVENESS

By drawing this card the angels ask you to release anger and irritation. They realise that you may be perfectly justified in feeling angry. Yet, they ask you to look at the high price you pay for being the vessel of anger. Your angels will help you release unforgiveness if you just ask for their assistance.

÷ OUTCOME: TWO OF WATER

Your relationship is healing and continued commitment is still possible. Now is not the time to leave a relationship. Difficulties between people or groups come to a positive resolution.