Psychic agony aunt and angel therapist

Linda Mooney is a leading angel therapy practitioner with fifteen years’ experience, trained and certified by Doreen Virtue an international expert in this field. Linda specialises in the healing aspect of angel therapy helping people to engage with their angels to find inner peace and healing. Email Linda at linda@ dailymail.ie or write to Linda Mooney, Irish Daily Mail, Third Floor, Embassy House, Dublin 4

QUESTION

I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy 14 days ago. It was a difficult birth and ended with a caesarean. While my parents, and my partner’s parents are firsttime grandparents and are all thrilled, both sets are assuming we will be spending Christmas with them. I am still quite weak and unwell, along with trying to cope being a first-time parent as my partner does shift work. It seems my partner has committed to spending Christmas with his parents without discussing it with me, and now we are arguing over the matter. I would never have committed to spending time with my parents without discussing it with him. I’ve tried reasoning with him but he won’t budge. I truthfully just want to spend it in our own home where I feel I would be more comfortable. He thinks I am being unreasonable. Am I? Thanks, W.

ANSWER

You have been through a difficult birth, and need help and support, not aggro, as you refer to the situation. It was, of course, out of order for your partner to commit to arrangements without discussion. Since you feel he won’t budge, sit down with your own mum and your partner’s mum and be honest about how you feel, and suggest a compromise. He obviously does not want to go back on his word to his own parents — however, an open and frank discussion with women who, no doubt, still remember the early days of a newborn may very well save face and solve the problem.

FIRST CARD: FAIRNESS

Another definition for fairness is when all parties involved surrender their personal agendas for the group. This requires trust in the wisdom of the whole. When it comes to disputes, the attacks are based on fears that you may not receive your share. Yet, attacks amplify the hurt and the pain that caused the dispute in the first place. Why not surrender your attachment to a specific outcome, and instead, direct your holy will toward the resolution of the argument? Hold a firm vision of a peaceful outcome and let the pieces fall into place in a harmonious manner.

ADVICE/OBSTACLE: COMPASSION

Release judgements about yourself and others, and focus on the love and light that is within everyone. Gentleness is the strength behind true power, and it comes from feeding yourself with nourishing words, thoughts, deeds, intentions, and all forms of food. Shield yourself from harshness by placing an intention to attract only kind and gentle life lessons and relationships. Transform harshness into gentleness by refusing to see anything but the shining light that’s within each person and situation. This intention begins with your relationship with yourself, Be very gentle with yourself in all ways. Be happy, be kind, be sweet, but most of all, be true to you.

OUTCOME: FOCUSED INTENTION

Keep your unwavering thoughts, feelings and actions focused on your target, and you will make your mark. Tenacity means sticking to a decision and not allowing outside forces to sway you. Imagine yourself like a mighty oak tree, with your roots deeply planted into Mother Earth. Feel your solid strength and steady upward growth. Your branches may twist and turn as you flex toward the light, no faint wind will sway you from your mission. Be in charge of your body, your schedule, and your mind, and keep them focused upon your target.

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