Jack and Bobby embraced as they did at Wembley 42 years earlier – and a painful feud was over
IT WAS an embrace between two footballing brothers that encapsulated the English fans’ mood of elation after their national team’s 1966 World Cup win.
After the final whistle blew at Wembley Stadium, a joyous Jack Charlton hugged his younger brother Bobby.
‘Nobody can ever take this moment away from us,’ Bobby said as tears streamed down his face.
The extraordinary image of brotherhood masked a complex relationship between two very different personalities who at times clashed off the pitch while complementing each other on it.
And it was Jack’s footballing prowess that was remembered yesterday as Premier League teams observed a minute’s silence following the announcement of the former Republic of Ireland manager’s death on Friday, aged 85.
Geoff Hurst, who scored a hat-trick in the Wembley victory over West Germany, described his World Cup teammate as a ‘great and loveable character’, while British prime minister Boris Johnson said he was ‘a football great whose achievements brought happiness to so many’.
IN a statement, the Charlton family said: ‘We cannot express how proud we are of the extraordinary life he led and the pleasure he brought to so many people in different countries and from all walks of life.
‘He was a thoroughly honest, kind, funny and genuine man who always had time for people.’
Born in 1935, Jack grew up in the north east of England in the Northumberland pit town of Ashington where his family lived in a house without a bathroom or running water.
Money was so tight that Jack shared a bed with Bobby and their two younger brothers, Gordon and Tommy.
Jack was happiest outdoors. He fished off the coast at Newbiggin-by-the-Sea and in nearby rivers, sometimes staying out all night.
‘If I can choose the way I will leave this world, it will be clutching a rod, with a 40lb salmon on the other end of the line dragging me down the river,’ he once said.
By contrast, Bobby preferred staying indoors. Jack once remarked that he refused to fish because ‘he didn’t like handling worms’.
Their mother Cissie bought Jack his first pair of football boots when he was seven and would often join her sons for a kickabout in the street. Unable to afford to buy them a football kit, Cissie made Jack a pair of shorts from an old curtain.
While Bobby and Jack were both gifted players, Bobby was usually picked ahead of his taller brother. Indeed, when Leeds United offered Jack a trial, Cissie asked whether they had intended to ask Bobby.
After leaving school, Jack worked for a few weeks as a miner at the Linton colliery, where his father had worked, but soon decided to leave and pursue his dream of becoming a footballer.
Fiercely proud of his roots, Jack joined Bobby for a trip back to Ashington days after their 1966 triumph. They were mobbed as they toured their hometown in an open-top car. Jack later spent part of his £1,000 World Cupwinning bonus on a new home for his parents – their first with an indoor toilet.
Cissie, whose cousin was Jackie Milburn, one of England’s most famous post-war players, always showed a keen interest in her sons’ exploits – both on and off the pitch.
On the night of England’s victory in 1966, Jack sneaked away from the official reception at the Royal Garden Hotel in Kensington, West London, and enjoyed a long night of partying.
When he eventually returned to the hotel, his mother was waiting for him in the foyer. ‘Where have you been?’ Cissie demanded. ‘I’ve been up to your room and the bed hasn’t been slept in!’
EARLY in their careers and despite playing for rivals Leeds and Manchester United, the brothers were close. Jack asked Bobby to be his best man when he married Pat Kemp in 1958. ‘It was not through convention, but because he was my best friend,’ he later said.
However, after Bobby’s marriage three years later to Norma, they began to grow apart amid claims of tension between Cissie and Norma. Years of growing antipathy exploded in 1996 when Jack criticised Bobby for failing to visit Cissie in her final years and suggesting that had been influenced by Norma.
A decade later, Bobby described Jack’s claims about his wife as ‘absolutely disgraceful’. Writing in a book in 2007, he confessed he and his brother had ‘never been further apart than we are now’, adding: ‘I just don’t want to know him.’
Their relationship seemed irreparably broken but they were very publicly reconciled a year later when Bobby was presented with a BBC Sports Personality of the Year Lifetime Achievement Award.
Jack agreed to present the trophy and told his sibling: ‘Bobby Charlton is the greatest player I’ve ever seen. And he’s my brother.’
The pair embraced – just as they had on the turf at Wembley 42 years earlier.
Two years ago, the brothers were pictured together again – for the first time in years – when they attended the funeral of their 1966 teammate Ray Wilson.
Jack, who spent 23 years at Leeds and later a decade at the helm of the Irish soccer team, suffered a fall at his home in Morpeth in 2010 and needed a hip replacement. He was later treated for an aneurysm and was also found to be suffering from Alzheimer’s.
In a statement, Leeds United said: ‘He will remain in football folklore for ever and his records at Leeds United are unlikely ever to be surpassed.’
His granddaughter Emma Wilkinson, an ITV news reporter, said: ‘Beyond sad to have to say goodbye to my beloved grandad, Jack Charlton.
‘He enriched so many lives through football, friendship and family. He was a kind, funny and thoroughly genuine man.’