LINDA MOONEY
Psychic agony aunt and angel therapist
Linda Mooney is a leading angel therapy practitioner with fifteen years’ experience, trained and certified by Doreen Virtue an international expert in this field. Linda specialises in the healing aspect of angel therapy helping people to engage with their angels to find inner peace and healing. Email Linda at linda@dailymail.ie or write to Linda Mooney, Irish Daily Mail, Two, Haddington Buildings, Haddington Road, Dublin 4
QUESTION
Hi Linda, I have been engaged to my boyfriend for two years and we have been together for about six years. However, I feel our relationship is in crisis. The continuous arguments are leaving me exhausted and confused, and I am wondering is the relationship worth all the hassle. No matter what I do lately there is a row and an emotional outburst from my boyfriend. When I bring up the subject I am told I am being over-sensitive. He dismisses the real issues all the time by saying how sweet the making up is. I am beginning to loose my own self-respect and am moaning constantly to my friends. I do love my boyfriend and I believe he loves me, but his constant bad behaviour and outbursts are becoming intolerable. Is there any solution to our problem. Sincerely, R.
ANSWER
Dear R, No doubt about it your relationship is definitely in a negative cycle which of course leads to anger and resentment. Unfortunately as humans we can, in long term relationships take each other for granted. There are a number of questions you need to ask yourself . Firstly are you blaming each other rather than looking for solutions?
Secondly do you want this relationship to work? You have already asked yourself if the relationship worth the hassle. You also mention that you are losing your own self-respect and feeling like a victim. It’s time to either work together to find solutions to make your relationship work, and if you find you cannot compromise and overcome the difficulties, it’s time to realise the relationship is going nowhere and it’s time to leave.
÷ FIRST CARD: INTENTION
By drawing this card the angels ask you to take an inventory of your expectations. What do you expect to happen, today, tomorrow, or in the future? These expectations are the seeds of your intentions. An intention means that you have set a goal and intend to achieve it. Your intentions drive your experiences. The angels ask you to choose and infuse your intentions with love. See yourself and others as happy, successful and peaceful. By holding these spiritual minded intentions, you help yourself and others. The angels can help you replace negative mental habits with more empowering thoughts.
÷ ADVICE, OBSTACLE: MAKE A DECISION
Sometimes life feels as if it’s at an impasse, while we await Heaven’s next instruction. By drawing this card, Heaven asks, ‘what do you want?’. Sometimes the Universe asks you to be the decision maker and this is one of those times. Instead of passively allowing life to push you around llke a canoe without oars, you’re counselled to take charge and set your own course. Know that Heaven gives you all of the resources you need to pull yourself out of any situation, as long as you make a firm and clear decision. Let go of all fears or worries, and focus only on the destination you intend to reach. Enjoy the journey along the way.
÷ OUTCOME: SET YOUR SIGHTS HIGHER
This card indicates that you’ve being to rationalise that some situation is ok... when it isn’t. You settled for less than you desire. and for much less than you deserve. You don’t need to compromise! Heaven will help you heal, or replace troubling situations in your life. All you need to do is ask Heaven’s help, and then adhere to the guidance that results. Take time to visualise and dream about your desires. Don’t worry about being disappointed you deserve a great life. Fear and worries slow down your manifestation, so keep releasing all of them to Heaven.
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