LINDA MOONEY

Psychic agony aunt and angel therapist

Linda Mooney is a leading angel therapy practitioner with fifteen years’ experience, trained and certified by Doreen Virtue an international expert in this field. Linda specialises in the healing aspect of angel therapy helping people to engage with their angels to find inner peace and healing. Email Linda at linda@dailymail.ie or write to Linda Mooney, Irish Daily Mail, Two, Haddington Buidligns, Haddington Road, Dublin 4

QUESTION

Dear Linda, I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months, in the beginning he admitted he was seeing other people. However, after the first six months we agreed to be exclusive and focus on our relationship.

Although we don’t live together, he stays over at my apartment two or three nights a week. However, I have never visited his place, as he told me at the beginning of our relationship that he shares an apartment with a male colleague.

He was away with work a week before Valentines day and stayed with me for a couple of nights the week after. On his return we celebrated Valentines and he gave me lovely flowers, a card and some expensive wine. However, as he left his case at mine while at work I decided to do his washing for him. Inside there was a valentines card and gift in his hand writing to another female whom I know works in his office.

I also found a gift of a heart shaped locket and chain. We were on a night out later that week with his work colleagues and the female in question - who is married was wearing the locket. Of course on our return to my place I tackled my boyfriend about the matter and he became incredibly angry. He told me I had no right to go through his case and I couldn’t be trusted. He said it was just a coincidence that she was wearing a similar locket, and he was asked by another friend to purchase a gift for his girlfriend.

I then mentioned the handwritten card to which he stormed off. He is looking for a second chance and I am wondering what to do. Should I speak to the woman too? Yours sincerely, P.

ANSWER

Dear P, There are certainly a lot of red flags in your relationship that you may not have wanted to face - the first being you have never been to his apartment. His reaction to you finding the gift and the card is also a definite red flag.

He is the one, having agreed to not see anyone else in your relationship, who cannot be trusted. As for exposing the situation about his work colleague, although the ego might find satisfaction, would you truly benefit from it? Although it may hurt now to end things, you will have saved yourself a lot more hurt had you not found out at this early stage. Time to move on and let karma do its job.

÷ FIRST CARD: LIFE EXPERIENCE

You drew this card because a recent event has been a wake-up call for you to make some life changes. This may be a new revelation or something you have been procrastinating about.

Now you realise that the situation can’t be ignored and action is necessary. This is a moment both of freedom and awakening. The way you see yourself and the world has forever changed, bringing you growth and encouraging you to spread your wings.

÷ ADVICE/OBSTACLE: YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO

You are far wiser than you realise, and your inner wisdom has already given you the answers you seek. Embrace this knowledge, and trust it. If you’re doubtful, ask the angels to give you clear signs to validate your thoughts and ideas. They can also help you to put your ideas into action, and make decisions about your next steps to take. Just ask the angels and then be willing to work with them by taking action.

÷ OUTCOME: RELEASE

This card signifies that it’s time to move on because this project or phase of your life is now complete. There’s no benefit in remaining in this situation. Instead, shake off the old and welcome the new! You may experience a sense of relief at this ending, or there may be sadness. Either way, it’s time to leave that which you’ve outgrown. Take your time in adjusting. Be kind to yourself and seek support of family and friends.