Sally Lord, via email

After reading recent letters on your page from women who are struggling with infertility and childlessness (Dear Coleen, Oct 23), I’d like to share what helped me.

Unfortunately, I didn’t have children and grieved alone for many years until I found Gateway Women, a group for childless ladies, and I was able to work through my grief and look at a different life. We call it our Plan B.

The group has meetings each month in cities throughout the UK (gatewaywomen.com/meetup).