MY EX KEEPS SENDING ME NAKED VIDEOS

My ex-boyfriend ended our relationship, saying said he had to leave for an arranged marriage, but it was only to please his parents.

It’s been a month since his engagement, but he still contacts me all the time and sends naked videos of himself. He also insists I’m “the only one” for him.

I can see from this behaviour what kind of man he really is, but should I tell his soon-to-be wife about what he’s getting up to?

I’d love your advice.

Coleen says

I’m glad you’ve seen what kind of person he is and it sounds like you want no part of what he’s offering.

It appears to me as if he’d like to get married to keep his family happy, while carrying on a relationship with you behind his wife’s back. Has no-one told him you can’t have your cake and eat it?

I think you should certainly tell him to stop contacting you and to stop sending you naked films. And, if he carries on, then threaten him with telling his fiancée.

However, I don’t think you should tell her out of revenge and it won’t make you feel any better (well, maybe for a couple of minutes). Be the bigger person and walk away with your head held high.

Hopefully, firing a warning shot will be enough to see him off and you can move on and focus on yourself and your future. Chances are, if he behaves like this, his fiancée will soon see through him.