Will he fall for a trick?

MY new neighbour turns tricks in her spare room.

She offers oily massages, “correction” and “Happy Endings”.

She boasts that she helps men who can’t get sex any other way.

She’s very broadminded and isn’t embarrassed about her range of offerings.

I’m paranoid that my man might pop in there. He has cheated on me several times in the past but we’re in a good place right now.

He promises that he won’t let me down again, but can I trust him?

JANE SAYS: You and your man have had problems in the past, but every fresh start must rely on an element of trust.

Talk to him urgently and make him promise that he will never go near your neighbour. Make it clear that you expect him to respect your wishes and stay loyal and true.

The problem is that if you start making a huge issue of your neighbour’s profession, then you may cause a rift. You may, even, push him into her arms or completely away.

Sadly, if he does ever let you down again, you’ll sadly have to conclude that you and he were never destined to go the distance.

MY ex-girlfriend has moved into a “free love commune” in the countryside.

She’s sharing a house with three fellas and two girls. Apparently other horny pals also drop by for anything-goes sex.

As well as massive beds there’s an adult playroom, hot tub and huge shower they all get down and dirty in…

She’s demeaning herself and being an idiot. What is she trying to prove? I’ve told her I want to stop acting the goat and come home. She says I can visit her, if I like, but I’ll have to be prepared to sleep with her friends and join in.

How dare she humiliate me? She’s making the biggest mistake of her life.

JANE SAYS: I don’t know how to break this to you, but your EXgirlfriend can do anything she wants. She doesn’t need your approval and doesn’t have to follow your rules.

The day you split was the day she spread her wings took off in a totally new direction. I strongly suggest you leave her be. If she wants to explore her sexuality with a series of new lovers, then that’s her choice.

You may not care for her alternative lifestyle, but who are you to call the shots?

Back off, make your own plans and stop judging. Pause and think about why you and she broke up in the first place.