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wife, I am not going to see you again.”

Do you want to be the other woman for another five, 10 or 15 years? Let alone with a child to bring up on your own. He’s not going to see you any differentl­y because you have a child. Yes, he would love the child.

But then you would be asking him not just to choose between two women, but choose between two children. That would make his dilemma worse and ultimately staying put would be his easiest choice.

Honestly, I don’t think you’ll ever get the answers you’re looking for from him. So don’t waste any more time waiting around for him. Thousands of women wait for their lovers to leave their wives. Most never do and then the “other woman” finds she has wasted years.

There are three main reasons a married man never leaves:

He really does have the best of both worlds – escapism and great sex with you, a home and hearth with his wife and children.

Divorce is just too painful, emotionall­y and financiall­y.

Things at home are not as bad as he paints to you.

Please don’t get pregnant just to lure him away. It won’t work and it would change your life for ever. Be brave, give him up. You still have a chance of finding a fulfilling and happy relationsh­ip of your own.

Be brave, give him up. You still have a chance of a fulfilling and happy relationsh­ip

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