I forgave… he cheated again

I don’t blame you. It’s one thing to be all grown up, forgive and even possibly forget, ONCE. Now, quite rightly, you wonder if this is going to be the pattern of your life. If you could both go to relationship counselling and work out a way to stay together, is that what you really want? You have to understand that you’re in charge of this situation now. Either you give in to persistent unfaithfulness, try to work it out, or get out. My advice is, get counselling. On your own at first, to figure out your true feelings. You don’t want to be an everlasting doormat. For more details visit