Sunday Independent (Ireland)

Millennial­s facing into lonely lives, warns Dr Ruth

- Nick Allen

AMERICA’S most famous sex therapist has warned that social media is propelling millennial­s into a future of loneliness in which they will have difficulty forming lasting relationsh­ips.

Dr Ruth Westheimer, universall­y known as ‘Dr Ruth’, said she was deeply concerned that young people would not find marriages that lasted.

She had one exception: Harry and Meghan. She said the royal newly-weds were clearly so in love they were one of the few couples that did not need her advice.

Dr Ruth, who turned 90 last week, said: “Of course I watched the royal wedding because I am very interested in relationsh­ips.”

But she added: “It’s much more difficult these days to keep a relationsh­ip going — and it’s because of the internet. It gives people unreasonab­le expectatio­ns, like that a Prince Charming will come riding in on a horse.”

The 4ft 7in sex therapist said that addiction to social media meant “loneliness” was going to become a bigger problem than “sexual literacy”, which she used to guide the nation on.

“I’m very concerned about loneliness,” she said. “People are losing the art of conversati­on. They’re constantly on their iPhones. It’s a big problem for the relationsh­ips.”

To that end Dr Ruth is returning to TV with a programme aimed at millennial­s. She will have a young, male co-host and has promised to let him get a word in.

“What the young people need now is a voice like mine, a little bit old-fashioned and square,” she said.

“We need to tell them to put the phone aside, and put their energy into forming relationsh­ips. You can’t ignore the phone, but you have to know not to be addicted.”

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