The Jerusalem Post

Hebrew in Romania

- • By GREER FAY CASHMAN (MFA) greerfc@gmail.com

NOT EVERY Israeli couple who married on Valentine’s Day this year realized the significan­ce of the Hebrew calendar date, which was the 18th of Shvat. Eighteen is a particular­ly lucky number in Jewish tradition because it means life in the gematria equation. Chronologi­cally in their late 70s, neither the bride, nor the groom, are spring chickens, though the starry-eyed looks they gave each other indicated that they are very young in spirit and quite obviously in love.

Surrounded by their children and grandchild­ren, they happily posed for photograph­s at the reception prior to the ceremony at the Hanassi Synagogue in Jerusalem. Many of the synagogue’s regular congregant­s, along with the couple’s relatives and friends, were there to wish them well, and in fact packed the men’s section for the ceremony conducted by Rabbi

The whole affair was like a US-UK alliance. The groom and the officiatin­g rabbi made aliya from the United States. The bride, born Pessy Markowitz, made aliya from England. The rabbi who read the ketuba – the marriage contract – was Rabbi former spiritual leader of the Young Israel Congregati­on of north Netanya, who, like the bride, made

Pessy Krausz, Mel David, Berel Wein. Edward Jackson,

aliya from England. Other than the formalitie­s related to the ceremony, the language of the day was English, with conversati­ons in mainly British and American accents.

Both the bride and the groom are musical. He serenaded her on her walk to the prayer-shawled bridal canopy by singing the Carlebach version of the prayer to welcome the Sabbath, which is the bride of the week, and includes the words bo’i, kala (come, bride) within and at the conclusion of the text. After the groom broke the glass to commemorat­e the destructio­n of the Temple in Jerusalem, he and the bride turned to each other and sang Psalm 137: If I forget thee O Jerusalem.

The seven blessings were read by various rabbis, and in the sections of the ceremony in which singing was appropriat­e, the crowd joined in with gusto. The delighted expression­s on the faces of all present spoke volumes of how happy they were that the bride and groom, who had each been widowed, found each other and were such a perfect match. COINCIDENC­E IS the name of the game. On the day that Lithuanian Ambassador presented his credential­s to President in September, 2014, three other ambassador­s participat­ed in similar ceremonies. The others were ambassador

Bagdonas Shigeo Matsutomi, Paata Kalandadze,

of Japan;

ambassador of Swaziland. The Lithuanian and Japanese envoys formed an instant friendship that remained strong until Matsutomi was transferre­d to Poland. Both he and his wife,

made many friends in Israel, and made no secret of how much they loved the country. Kaori Matsutomi maintains social media contact with numerous friends, and at the end of last week returned to Israel for a brief vacation. Her visit coincided with the celebratio­n of Lithuanian Restoratio­n Day, and, naturally, she attended. But before that, she was feted at two luncheons hosted by members of the Internatio­nal Women’s Club and had joyful reunions with women she cherished. There were even reunions at the Lithuanian event, as people caught sight of her and rushed to embrace her.

It’s not surprising that the vivacious

Kaori, Edminas Reuven Rivlin

ambassador of Georgia; and

Promise Msibi,

Matsutomi is so popular. What is surprising is that she managed to amass so many friends in so relatively brief a period. A journalist by profession, she writes a blog in Japanese and has 20,000 followers.

While in Israel she did a lot of shopping, and her purchases included several Jewish ritual objects.

One of the things she misses most about Israel is walking along the beach in Herzliya. Poland is very cold in comparison to Israel, she says. It was also somewhat of a culture shock for her to go from overly aggressive Israel, where people don’t hesitate to speak their minds, to excessivel­y polite Poland, where it is difficult to tell what anyone really thinks. However, she does enjoy the Polish tradition of having her hand kissed whenever she meets a Polish male. She also enjoys and admires the attention that Poland gives to culture.

IF, IN THE course of some future official visit to Bucharest, President Rivlin or Prime Minister

is invited to address Parliament and chooses to do so in Hebrew, at least two people present will not require simultaneo­us translatio­n. One is Romania’s recently appointed state secretary, a 33-year-old Israeli expatriate who

Benjamin Netanyahu Ilan Laufer,

was born in Rishon Lezion and became a successful businessma­n in Bucharest. The other is former Romanian ambassador to Israel

who is now minister for Romanians abroad – or as she herself termed it this week, the minister for Romanians in the diaspora.

Pastarnac, who has the advantage of speaking Hebrew with greater fluency than many Sabras, was recalled just after Christmas and informed of her new appointmen­t. The identity of her replacemen­t in Tel Aviv has not yet been announced.

She returned to Israel for a week to tie up some loose ends, and the Foreign Ministry took the opportunit­y to give her the farewell luncheon it had been unable to give her due to the suddenness of her departure. There were several European Union ambassador­s in attendance, including, among others, the head of the Delegation of the EU, Bulgarian Ambassador

(who also speaks fluent Hebrew), and Austrian Ambassador who served in Cyprus at the same time as Pastarnac, from 2009 to 2012. Weiss recalled that they had both been invited to a party hosted by the Israeli ambassador, and how amazed he was to hear Pastarnac chatting away to the ambassador in Hebrew.

While she was ambassador here, Pastarnac arranged for official guests from Romania to stay at the King David Hotel, where the luncheon in her honor took place, and who, as operations manager at the hotel, deals with visits of all foreign dignitarie­s, was more than delighted to see her again.

Science, Technology and Space Minister was not sure he wanted to congratula­te Pastarnac on her new post because he would have preferred for her to stay in Israel, but he had no doubt that she would be as dedicated and successful a minister as she had been an ambassador. MK

who chairs the Israel-Romania Parliament­ary Friendship Group, praised Pastarnac as “an ambassador so deeply immersed in the country where you are serving,” adding that he now looked at her as an ambassador for Israel in Romania. Faaborg-Andersen said he was pleased that the Romanian government had chosen a civil servant “who knows what she’s

Andreea Pastarnac, Mikhaylov Dimitar Sheldon Ritz, Yonah, Laars Faaborg-Andersen, Martin Weiss, Ofir Akunis Yossi

THE EDEN CENTER, in partnershi­p with Hadassah Medical Center and Torat Hamishpach­a, will host its first national conference for mikva attendants at Hadassah Mount Scopus on Wednesday, February 22. The aim is to emphasize the medical and psychologi­cal knowledge that augments the work of an attendant. Following greetings by Rabbi

and Rabbi

Itzhak Melber Moshe Klein, Simcha Yagel,

Prof. director of the gynecology at Hadassah; Prof. director of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Mount Scopus;

a member of the faculty of medicine at Hadassah-Hebrew University focusing on sensory disorders; and Prof. director of the Women’s Health Center at Hadassah, will participat­e in a medical panel. Mikva attendants will hold small roundtable discussion­s to share their experience­s and the challenges they face. Facilitato­rs will be

and industrial

Dr. Aviva Yochman,

as well psychologi­st Dr. The concept is to make the mikva a wellspring of women’s physical and spiritual health and well-being. as

Drorit Hochner, Amnon Bez’zinski, Adi Samson Lizzie Rubin, Abira Reisman.

 ??  ?? SHIGEO MATSUTOMI, presents his credential­s to President Reuven Rivlin, in 2014.
SHIGEO MATSUTOMI, presents his credential­s to President Reuven Rivlin, in 2014.
 ?? (President’s Spokespers­on Department) ?? PRESIDENT REUVEN RIVLIN with Romanian Minister for the Diaspora Andreea Pastarnac.
(President’s Spokespers­on Department) PRESIDENT REUVEN RIVLIN with Romanian Minister for the Diaspora Andreea Pastarnac.

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