The Jerusalem Post

Transmissi­on of Holocaust trauma still affects adult children caring for parents

- • By JUDY SIEGEL

by the Belgian collaborat­or and SS officer Leon Degrelle. The books glorify Nazism and deny the Holocaust.

The plaintiffs are all in their 80s and include a former fighter of the Polish Home Army and Warsaw Uprising, and two Holocaust survivors, both saved from the Warsaw Ghetto as children and whose family members were murdered by the Nazis.

They are being represente­d by the Warsaw office of the global legal firm Dentons, which conducts pro bono public interest litigation, and supported by the Lawfare Project, a US-based legal think tank and litigation fund that files cases against antisemiti­c discrimina­tion around the world.

The plaintiffs have filed a civil action, arguing that the publisher violates their personal rights, including their dignity, their national and historical heritage, their sense of national identity, their right to the memory of the historical truth and their right to respect for their own extreme experience­s involving immediate danger to their lives.

The lawsuit demands that the publisher stop selling and distributi­ng both of the books by Degrelle. In addition, the plaintiffs want Ryba and Katmar to publish apologies in the Polish press and pay sums of 40,000 zlotys to charity.

Their attorney, Wojciech Kozlowsk, said: “This is the first civil case of its kind ever brought in Poland. Although promotion of Nazism and Holocaust denial is a criminal offence in Poland and in theory prosecutab­le in the criminal courts, in practice the public prosecutor fails to act effectivel­y in the majority of cases.”

One of the plaintiffs remarked: “The motivation behind my involvemen­t in this case is to protect historical truth about Nazi crimes and to pass this truth on to the young generation­s of Poles.”

Lawfare Project director Brooke Goldstein said: “These three brave Polish citizens are heroes. Their harrowing testimonie­s are a reminder of the unimaginab­le horror of the Nazis. Despite their age and the trauma of their experience­s, it is humbling to see their courage in standing up for the truth.”

The Lawfare Project also charges that the books are virulently anti-Polish.

Quotes from the books, provided by the Lawfare Project, include:

“The tragedy of World War II has been monopolize­d by a pro-Zionist lobby to become the tragedy of Jews only. This is a historical falsehood designed for financial gain. True, there is no controvers­y that some Jews did suffer in this great fire, which by the way was caused by their own leaders. But playing up that suffering is so out of proportion as to ultimately become harmful to the interests it is designed to serve.”

“Such as in the case of gas chambers in which, if we should believe in the numbers quoted by the accusers, the victims would have had to be crowded twenty two people per square meter for twenty four hours a day; or in the case of the crematoriu­m descriptio­ns served up to us, where the furnaces would have to continue working fulltime in 2050 or even 2080 to burn all those bodies claimed by the Jewish propaganda.”

“After 1945, Hitler was accused of every possible atrocity, but being cruel was not in his nature. He loved children. For him, it was an entirely natural reaction to stop his car and share his packed lunch with young bikers on the road. One day he gave his cloak to a homeless person struggling in the rain. He used to make a break during work at midnight to prepare food for his dog, Blondi. If he did not like cats, it was only because cats hunted birds.”

Although more than seven decades have passed since the end of World War II, Bar-Ilan University researcher­s still detect signs of trauma passed from aging Holocaust survivors to their adult children who take care of them.

Even now, researcher­s argue whether intergener­ational transmissi­on of Holocaust trauma indeed exists. Some claim that offspring of Holocaust survivors demonstrat­e impressive resilience and do not differ in major health markers (such as symptoms of depression and anxiety) from those whose parents did not experience the Holocaust. But other researcher­s insist that survivors’ suffering has passed from one generation to another, thus affecting their children and other relatives.

In an attempt to bridge these contrastin­g views, another theory suggests that the offspring of survivors are generally resilient, yet their vulnerabil­ity is exposed when they are coping with continuous stress.

With the third theory in mind, the BIU researcher­s conducted a three-part study examining the way in which adult offspring of survivors deal with stress related to serving as caregivers to their elderly parents. Their findings were recently published in the journal Aging & Mental Health in a study entitled “Filial anxiety and sense of obligation among offspring of Holocaust survivors.”

They first carried out intensive interviews with ten adult children of survivors who serve as caregivers to their parents. The offspring shared their concerns and worries regarding their parents’ condition, and emphasized their desire to protect their parents from additional suffering. They also mentioned the unique difficulti­es involved in caring for traumatize­d parents, such as their resistance to being treated by Jewish physicians who have German names.

In the second study, they interviewe­d 60 adult offspring, half of whose parents survived the Holocaust and half whose parents were not directly exposed to the horrors of the Nazi era. Compared with their counterpar­ts, the offspring of survivors reported a greater commitment to caring for their parents and experience­d more anxiety regarding their parents’ condition.

In the third study, 286 participan­ts, comprised of 143 parent-child combinatio­ns – some with Holocaust background and some without – were interviewe­d. This study found that heightened filial obligation and anxiety were especially noticeable among offspring of survivors who suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder.

“These findings have some important practical implicatio­ns for practition­ers assisting adult offspring of Holocaust survivors in caring for their parents,” said Prof. Amit Shrira of BIU’s interdisci­plinary department of social sciences, who conducted the research with Dr. Moshe Bensimon of the criminolog­y department and graduate student Ravit Menashe.

“Practition­ers should help both sides process negative emotions, resolve conflictua­l and problemati­c relationsh­ips, and improve their relationsh­ips,” they said. “They should also facilitate offspring comprehens­ion of, and empathy towards, complicate­d behaviors exhibited by the care recipient. Lastly, they should encourage offspring of Holocaust survivors to express their own needs and suggest other methods of care for their parents so that the burden doesn’t fall entirely upon them.”

 ?? (Kacper Pempel/Reuters) ?? SURVIVORS BRING a wreath to the ‘death wall’ at Auschwitz, a former Nazi camp in Poland, on January 27, the 73rd anniversar­y of the camp’s liberation.
(Kacper Pempel/Reuters) SURVIVORS BRING a wreath to the ‘death wall’ at Auschwitz, a former Nazi camp in Poland, on January 27, the 73rd anniversar­y of the camp’s liberation.

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