Three Faces of MOTHERHOOD
Shan pens love letter to rainbow baby Mila
Today’s Style Observer spotlights three mums each with a unique proposition on motherhood. The resolve of Shanice Mia Gore to become a mother involved in vitro fertilisation. Nothing could have prepared her, however, for the emotional upheaval that ensued... “The most heartbreaking news! There was no reason as to why the embryo just stopped growing. I was broken. The feeling of getting pregnant and losing it had become an oh-too-familiar feeling. Maybe motherhood was not on the cards.
“I mourned the loss of my pregnancy; took some time to clear my head; picked myself up and got on the ride again...”
For career woman Ava-marie Johnson, motherhood has been her biggest blessing and learning opportunity... “I have realised that trying to achieve perfect equilibrium in all areas of my life (best mom, attentive wife, fulfilling career, eating right, exercising, spiritual well-being, time for social activities) may not be possible,” she has learned.
Finally, we meet Natasha Bakon, a mother of three who, having pressed pause on her career to become a full-time mom, is now ready to return. “I do really miss being able to share my ideas and the ability to contribute something meaningful outside of the home,” she shares. The world she once knew, however, is no more. “A lot has changed in the workplace... and I no longer fit well in the demands of that corporate box,” she concludes.
SO thanks Shanice, Ava-marie and Natasha for removing the ubiquitous layers of motherhood seldom discussed.
Happy Mother’s Day to all SO mums wherever in the world you are.
NMWX
Motherhood for many is hardly a walk in the park! Just ask Shanice “Shan” Mia Gore, who six years ago experienced her first ectopic pregnancy and after undergoing emergency surgery, the result of a ruptured fallopian tube, the doctors discovered that she had endometriosis on the remaining tube. A year later another test was done to verify if she could conceive with the remaining tube. It came back positive. She got pregnant again but had another ectopic pregnancy, followed by yet another emergency surgery because her tube had ruptured!
“This left me heartbroken, scared, with a sense of emptiness... my dream of becoming a mom [I thought] was now out the window. Every pregnancy announcement I would hear of would make me feel so gutted on the inside. I yearned to have that feeling... my OB/GYN Dr Wayne Harvey recommended in vitro fertilisation (IVF). He mentioned that it was done here locally and I wouldn’t have to travel abroad to have the procedure done.
“This made me hopeful but also fearful of the road ahead. On a positive note I thought to myself, it was just my fallopian tubes that were the issue so this was indeed possible,” she shared with SO.
Embarking on your investment journey requires careful consideration and a solid foundation. Before diving into the financial markets, it’s crucial to assess your readiness and ensure you have sufficient emergency savings in place, such as a savings or short-term fixed deposit account. Once you’re adequately prepared, two fundamental principles that will guide you towards wealth creation are (i) taking advantage of compounding returns and (ii) managing the risk-return trade off.
The Art of Compounding Interest
Compounding is when your investments generate add-on earnings from previous earnings. For example, when you invest in stocks, one way to take advantage of the power of compounding, is to reinvest the dividends rather than withdrawing them from your investment account. Some investments, like unit trusts, offer tax advantages that enhance the compounding of returns. For these investments, you do not get taxed unless you withdraw funds from your investment. By not withdrawing funds, you can benefit from returns on the portion that would otherwise be paid out as taxes year after year. Additionally, systematically adding incremental amounts to your investments over the long term further capitalises on the magic of compounding.
To provide a more practical and numerical example of compound interest and incremental additions, let’s consider an initial investment amount of $1,000,000 with an expected annual return of 6.5 per cent. We’ll assume that every year, an additional $500,000 is added to the investment for a duration of 10 years.
In the first year, the initial investment of $1,000,000 would generate a return of $65,000
(6.5 per cent of $1,000,000). The total investment at the end of the first year would be $1,065,000 ($1,000,000 initial investment + $65,000 return).
In the second year, the new investment amount would be $1,565,000 ($1,065,000 previous year’s total + $500,000 additional investment). The return for the second year would be $101,725 (6.5 per cent of $1,565,000), making the total investment at the end of the second year $1,666,725 ($1,565,000 previous year’s total + $101,725 return).
This cycle continues for the next eight years, with $500,000 being added each year and the investment earning a 6.5 per cent return. By the end of the 10-year period, the total investment would have grown to approximately $8,124,349. The longer you remain invested and continue this disciplined approach, the more your wealth will increase exponentially.
This example demonstrates the power of compound interest and incremental additions over time. Starting with an initial investment and consistently adding to it allows your wealth to increase exponentially. It emphasises the importance of starting early, continually contributing from your income, and remaining invested for the long term to maximise the growth potential of your investments.
The Risk-return Trade-off
Different types of investments will offer different levels of potential return and exposure to risk. For instance, stocks are known to be a riskier type of investment relative to fixed income instruments, such as bonds and treasury bills, due to the frequent fluctuation of stock prices. However, it is precisely this risk that opens the door to potentially higher returns.
There is no low-risk high-return investment. If an investment pays a high return, odds are the risk is commensurate. As such, balancing risk and rewards becomes a delicate art, as investors weigh the potential for growth against the possibility of losses. Successful investing is about taking informed and calculated risks. This means taking the time to carefully research and understand your investments, instead of investing because others are doing it.
To mitigate risk, investors are also strongly encouraged to cultivate a diversified portfolio. By spreading investments across different asset classes and industries, you can effectively manage risk exposure. Diversification acts as a shield, guarding your investments from the potential downfall of any single investment, thereby enhancing the overall stability and performance of your portfolio.
The truth is, navigating all of these nuances can seem daunting to new investors. To negotiate this landscape with confidence, it is crucial to conduct extensive research on potential investment options. Equally important is establishing a close relationship with a trusted wealth advisor. A knowledgeable advisor can provide valuable guidance, helping you navigate the complexities of investment considerations and align your choices with your unique financial goals.
Ultimately, your financial future lies in your hands. Embrace the potential, unleash the magic of compound interest, assess your risk tolerance, evaluate potential rewards, and make informed decisions that align with your financial goals.
PS. To all the mothers who have marked their calendars to have this conversation with a wealth advisor, let’s raise a toast as you make the first steps to securing a prosperous tomorrow for yourself and generations to come!