Dating a married man

Dear A.S., Your husband needs all the support he can get from you. You know that he has a weakness for women and he does not hide it from you. He has told you the truth.

Your church sister who got involved with him is a worthless woman. She knew that he is your man and that both of you are married. She should not have gotten involved with him.

You said that you are afraid that he will hurt himself if you were to leave him, and you could be right. Some men cannot be satisfied with one woman, but his wife should always remain true to him and if she doesn’t, he might do something stupid.

I consider you a very smart woman. I beg you, therefore, to protect yourself. When you are having sex with your husband, use a condom. He will not protest, because he knows that he has been playing around.

Regardless of how wild a man is, he will slow down. He is not going to be ‘Mr Gallis’ throughout his life. You are a Christian woman; continue to pray for your husband and take him to church with you.

Pastor Dear Pastor, I’ve been dating a married man for the past two years and I know that what we are doing is wrong. My gentleman friend is in a situation that involves immigration and I’m the woman-in-waiting.

Lately, I have been feeling really guilty about the whole situation. It has got to the point where I’m so frustrated about all the drama that has occurred.

My question to you is, how do I exit this relationship and ask the Lord for guidance and forgiveness?

B.C. Dear B.C., You need to discuss your problem with an immigration lawyer. This man is already married. Why have you tied up yourself with him? I repeat, seek advice from an immigration lawyer.

Pastor.