He’s cheating, so I’m not going to file for him

Dear Pastor, I am a 47-year-old lady. I have being married for 10 years, but I have been with my husband for 25 years. We have one child together. He has nine other children, and right now another woman is pregnant by him. This man has been cheating on me for a long time, but I have not cheated on him, not even once. The woman who is presently pregnant for him is not living far from our home, and she is a much younger girl than I am.

This girl does not work. All she does is walk up and down. Why should this big man be in charge of this young girl? He doesn’t want me to say anything about the girl. I am a citizen in America, and I can hurt him by stopping the filing. He does not help me to support the only child that we have together, but he has money to give other women. He has forgotten that he is getting old. He is behaving like a young boy. I am not going to allow him to come to America and eat me out. I am not sure what I should do. That is why I am writing to you.

Whenever I call him these days, he hardly wants to talk. He is still sleeping around. His friends and neighbours told me so. Even his own relatives told me that he is only using me to get to America, but I am with him because of my son. He never has money.

I could cheat on him over and over again, but I don’t do so because I respect myself and my son. If I allow the filing to go through, when he comes to live in America it would be a different story with me. I know when he has a woman with him. He can hardly talk. Even girls who are under 18 he fools around with. I am so depressed. One of these underage girls got pregnant by him and did an abortion. is what That heard. I can do without this man. I am educated, and I look good. Men are always inviting me out. My boss is single, and I can have an affair with him. It is just for me to say yes. But because of my son, I haven’t gone that way. Please give me your advice. Disgusted Wife. I