Should I break up with my him?

Dear Pastor, Keep up the good work that you are doing. I need your input on a situation. I am currently in a relationship but we are having issues.

I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 22. He is a very thoughtful, generous, caring and kind person. The thing is, I don’t think he is as fully committed to me as I want him to be.

Reason being, he told me that he has a close friend and that he has feelings for her, but she is in a relationship with another man.

I’ve seen her before when I’m around my boyfriend and I can tell that she is jealous. He also plays with her as if they are together.

When I confronted him about it, he told me that I have nothing to worry about. But, Pastor, I asked him some questions to see where his mind and heart is and we nearly broke up.

From that I don’t know what to do or think, or whether this will ever work out. This girl even calls his mother Mommy.

He isn’t employed but I don’t let that bother me for you don’t have to be with someone who is established. But both of you can help each other reach their goals.

Should I call the relationship off before jealousy gets the best of me or should I wish him best of luck with this girl?

I also have an ex. We broke up for a silly reason, but he is telling me that he wants us to get married, and what’s the sense being with this guy if I don’t trust his intentions?

Confused