TIRED OF SLEEPING WITH MY BROTHER’S WIFE

Dear Pastor, I am 35 years old, and I have a confession to make. I have been having a sexual relationship with my brother’s wife. I am married, but my wife is studying, and whenever I want to have sex, she is always tired. My brother’s wife and I are very close, and one day I told her about my situation at home. It was at that time she told me that my brother isn’t studying but they hardly have sex because he has a problem.

He cannot have a strong erection. She told me that she is often tempted to go out and find a man. I told her that she should not go out. She said that whenever she is horny she would call on me since I don’t want her to go out. We laughed about it.

In December of last year, around Christmas time, she called me and asked me to drop her at a party. My brother was at another place. I told her to inform my brother and then I would pick her up. I picked her up and took her to the party. I told her that if she could not get a ride home, she should call me back. She called me at about 1:30 in the morning, and said the party was over and she was calling her husband but he was not answering. I picked her up and she started to touch me up in the car. She begged me to have sex with her and I complied. It has happened three times since.

My brother and I are very close, and we have business together and we are always talking. But his wife is not leaving me alone. So I am asking for your professional advice. How do I deal with this?

N.S