Think I have found the perfect guy

When this man started talking to me, my depression disappeared. I could not believe it.

Dear Pastor,

I am 27 years old and I have a boyfriend who is also 27. We met each other at a party and we fell in love.

He said that from the time he saw me, he told himself that I would be his wife. When I met him, I felt nothing like that, but as we got to know each other, my feelings for him became real. I have had boyfriends in the past, but none of them excited me like this man.

When I met him, I had just broken up with my boyfriend and I was going through a period of depression. When this man started talking to me, my depression disappeared. I could not believe it. I found it easy to follow his instructions. It was not difficult to have sex with this man. He had wooed me. I was ready to become his wife.

When I went to his house for the first time, I was nervous, but he assured me that no one would interfere with me. I met his mother and she welcomed me. It was about 9 p.m. and we had gone out; then he took me home to meet his mother. She told me how glad she was to meet with me, but it was almost past her her bedtime. She went into her room and closed the door. I was nervous, but this man reminded me that he was a grown man and his mother knows enough about me because he told her everything. I stayed with that man for the entire night and I felt totally relaxed.

The next time I went back to his house, it was early. We took food for his mother and ourselves and we sat around the table and ate. She told me that she was anxious to see her son get married, so we should hurry up and get married so that she can feel happy and see her grandchild. I love this man so much. This man owns his own house where his mother lives. I have always said that I didn’t want to live in the same house with a mother-in-law, but since meeting this woman, I have changed my mind. She is a wonderful saint. We have planned our wedding for this year.

It is going to be a very big wedding. That is what I want and he will do anything to please me, he says.

G.M.

Dear G.M.,

I am glad you have found a man you love and that you have been accepted by his mother. I hope that you will understand that when a woman gets married, she becomes a part of his family. An intelligent mother-in-law doesn’t interfere with her son’s wife. She welcomes her as this woman has done. I wish both of you well. Take good care of each other.

Pastor