Essence of Ramadan
Ramadan is indeed a remarkable time for introspection and spiritual growth. Consider the wisdom behind Allah’s choice of designating a specific month for fasting. Imagine if Allah had asked us to fast in any month of our choice, as long as we are fasting for 30 days. But because Ramadan is the only month for fasting, we’re collectively observing this obligation. We synchronize our efforts, breaking fasts, praying and fostering good together. What a beauty! This brings in the spirit of Ramadan. It’s a time for unity and reflection.
While Ramadan isn’t about indulgence, many, myself included, have unintentionally turned it into a month of feasting. It is the month of fasting. The month to not eat as much as we usually eat. This can inadvertently detract from its spiritual essence. For some, particularly women, the responsibilities of household chores and societal expectations can make them feel as if Ramadan is the most stressful month of the year. We find women immersed in culinary creations and bringing out the hidden chef, deviating from the intended purpose of moderation and ibadah.
Question: What’s the number one place that Allah hates? Yes, markets. We spend a lot of our time at grocery stores and markets at this time. But Allah wants to see us on the prayer rugs and around the Holy Quran instead. Our grocery bills are also the highest this month. Our bills must be the lowest, our food extravagance must be the most minor, and worship must be the highest compared to other months.
By staying away from markets, useless talks, useless activities, halal food and halal relations, we have only one thing to concentrate on: Our souls through taqwa - consciousness of Allah, fear of Allah born out of love for Him. A word mentioned 258 times in the Quran. Allah has placed high importance on this one word.
It’s crucial to approach Ramadan with sincere intentions and realistic goals tailored to our individual circumstances. Allah understands the challenges we face, be it work commitments, health issues or family responsibilities. By setting achievable objectives, such as abstaining from at least two habitual sins like music or screen time and performing at least two simple acts of kindness, we can strive for spiritual growth and attain taqwa.
Let us use this sacred month to cultivate humility, kindness, and a deeper connection with our Creator, embodying the true essence of Ramadan. Let this Ramadan not just come and leave us like the past Ramadans of our lives.