FOR THE BEST MAN/ GROOMSMEN

DO: Stay sober on the day of the wedding so that you can keep the groom on schedule and make sure he doesn’t forget anything. Make an actual written list of things you need to remember (rings, socks, etc) and be the guy-behind-the-guy that day so the groom has it easy. Try to keep the groom sober too, as much as you can.

DO: Plan an unforgettable party. Be it a day of snowboarding on the alps or a night out for drinks with the boys. It is vital for you to establish the groom’s comfort levels and learn of options from there. All in all, the main goal is to ensure the party is a memorable and joyous one.

DO: Make a point to dance with the single ladies (especially the older ones) at the wedding reception. The bride and groom will appreciate your efforts to make everyone feel included.

DON’T: Get uncontrollably wasted at the reception just because you can. We know it’s easy to get carried away to free-flowing champagne and liquor. Indulge and enjoy yourself but don’t have too much to drink. You have to be the last man standing at the end of the night to make sure the last guest gets in a cab and reach home.

DON’T: Turn the toast into a roast. Of all the responsibilities that come with a wedding, it is the best man’s toast that most closely resembles a minefield. Never mention any of his exes in anything you say or do near a microphone. Also, skip the talk about his relationship history with the bride’s friends and family.

DON’T: Resort to pranks and frat boy antics during the wedding weekend—this isn’t school days and you’re not a kid anymore.

No matter what your bridesmaid or groomsman duties entail, it is important to remember one essential rule: Have fun! You have been chosen to help a friend navigate one of the most special times of their lives, and it’s an experience that will bring you cl

BE ON YOUR BEST BEHAVIOUR Once you have been chosen to be a bridesmaid or a groomsman, forget about being in the limelight and opt to be the best companion on your friend’s special day