Sherpa widows breaking down taboos as they eye Everest
K ATHMANDU: For generations, climbing has been firmly the realm of men among the legendary Sherpas of Nepal.
But that convention is being challenged by two Sherpa women attempting to summit Mt Everest and force a rethink about the role of widows in their conservative community, after their husbands died on the world’s highest mountain.
Furdiki Sherpa and Nima Doma Sherpa hail from the Himalayan people revered for their skill at high altitudes as climbing guides.
Neither woman ever dreamed of making an expedition to the roof of the world themselves. But that is exactly what they are preparing to do when the short spring climbing season gets underway next month.
“The men climb. We had other things to do. I was running a tea house and taking care of my family. I didn’t think about climbing the mountains,” Furdiki said.
That changed in 2013 when she lost her husband to the mountain as he fixed ropes along the route that aid climbers to the summit.
Furdiki was suddenly alone without a breadwinner to help raise their three children.
A year later, another tragedy brought her into contact with Nima Doma, whose husband was swept to his death with 15 other Nepali guides in a deadly Everest avalanche.
“After our husbands passed away, we spent months just crying at home over their memories. But we had to take care of our family and ourselves. It was not easy to do this as a widow,” said Nima Doma.
In need of work, the pair sought jobs as trekking guides here.
After guiding some amateur treks the women embarked on serious mountaineering training and soon plan to summit Mt Everest took shape.
In November, they climbed Island Peak and Chulu Far East Peak, difficult ascents more than 6,000m.
“They grew up in the mountains,” said Ang Tshering Lama, whose Angs Himalayan Adventure company is organising their “Two Widow Expedition” to Everest.