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Entertaining is not for everyone, though we have a few tips and items that might help those who get heart palpitations and sputtering pans that come with this high-stress task
Tips to get you through the stress of hosting your next party
INVITE CLEARLY
A good host should display respect and consideration as early as the invitation process. According to the Emily Post Institute – the world-famous establishment in promoting gracious behaviour in society and business – a good invitation card should include necessary details: the date, the time, the place, the occasion, the host(s) and when and how to RSVP. Plus add any additional information such as what to wear so that guests know what to expect.
PLAN AHEAD
Start to make plans and preparations in the month or weeks leading up to a party. Plan a friendly menu, make a shopping list, compile an ambient playlist, draw up a cooking schedule and design your table setting as far in advance as possible. Take extra special care in creating your guest list, for a great group of people will make any party a success, even if it rains on the picnic or the food is a flop.
KEEP THINGS ORGANISED
Always start cooking a little earlier than you think you should. As much as it is a culinary term largely used in professional kitchens, we encourage the practice of mise en place at home. Having all the ingredients out and ready to go before you start cooking helps you to discover if you might be short on anything and gives you time to replenish them. Wash the dishes as you go, so that guests will not arrive with chaos in the kitchen.
PAMPER YOUR GUESTS
It begins with the basics, like making sure the place is clean and playing some good tunes to set the mood. Greet them warmly and make them feel welcomed throughout the party. Look after each guest as much as you can. Keep drinks and food coming. Introduce newcomers and get the conversations flowing.
HAVE FUN
At the end of the day, it is your party and you should have a share of the fun. Manage your expectations and know that no party will go entirely perfect. Remove the apron, sit with your friends and enjoy your time together. That is the point of a party, after all.