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- Many are out shopping for gifts for their loved ones, so it’s good to know what will bring them happiness. — 123rf.com

COULD buying or having fewer things make you happier?

As we move towards Christmas and the inevitable shopping that comes with it, many of us will be thinking about what to buy our loved ones.

However, in line with the old adage “money can’t buy you happiness,” some recent research suggests that having more material possession­s doesn’t necessaril­y make us happier, and spending money instead in other ways could actually give more satisfacti­on.

Here we look at what the studies suggest about how buying and living with less may affect well-being.

The most recently published research to look at possession­s and their effect on us is well-timed for Christmas. Published last month by the University of Toledo, the new study suggests, perhaps surprising­ly, that children are happier playing with less, not more toys.

The researcher­s found that children with fewer toys played for longer periods with a single toy, and played with the toy in more creative ways, giving parents a good reason not to buy everything on their child’s Christmas list this year.

When looking at presents for adults, research has found that although material purchases can bring happiness, it may not be as expected.

A 2015 Canadian study found that although both material and experienti­al purchases gave happiness, material purchases brought repeated feelings of happiness over time while experience­s brought a more intense, but shorter feelam ing of happiness.

However, when the team asked participan­ts to look back on their purchases six weeks after Christmas, it was the experience­s that gave them more satisfacti­on.

Other studies have also suggested that instead of buying yourself material possession­s,

buying yourself extra time can in fact lead to greater levels of life satisfacti­on, with a study published earlier this year finding that regardless of income, those who spent money on things that saved them time – such as paying a cleaner or for someone to mow the lawn – reported greater life satisfacti­on.

Meanwhile US research from Cornell University also found that people are more grateful, and even more generous, when they enjoy experience­s rather than material gifts.

The team carried out six studies in total to show that experienti­al purchases, such as travel, meals out and tickets to events, inspire more gratitude and therefore more generous, altruistic behavior than material purchases, such as clothing, jewellery and furniture.

And feeling gratitude itself can lead to many positive health benefits, including increased feelings of happiness, better health outcomes, improved sleep quality, and even improved social cohesion, with Thomas Gilovich, who co-authored the study, suggesting that government­s could use his findings to improve well-being of citizens and improve society.

“If public policy encouraged people to consume experience­s rather than spending money on things, it would increase their gratitude and happiness and make them more generous as well,” he commented, with the team concluding that, “shifting spending toward experienti­al consumptio­n can improve people’s everyday lives as well as the lives of those around them.” – Relaxnews

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