Telling their own stories
New book hopes to challenge Western stereotypes about Muslim women.
FED up with Western stereotypes pegging Muslim women as “submissive” and judging them by their religious clothing, a feminist author collected essays from 17 Muslim women whose lives tell a different story, including her own.
In Mariam Khan’s “It’s Not About the Burqa”, the authors include activists, journalists and researchers, mainly from Britain, who wrote personal stories about mental health, queer identity, divorce, feminism, and the hijab.
“Burqa is the most politicised word around Muslim women,” Khan said.
“Burqa and hijab are the first things many people think of in the West when they think of Muslim women – that is not a problem, but there is so much more to a Muslim woman than the clothes she wears.”
Last year, former British Foreign Secretary Boris Johnson said the robe was oppressive, ridiculous and made women look like letter boxes and bank robbers, prompting an outcry from other politicians and British Muslim groups.
“Muslim female narratives are often co-opted by everyone who isn’t a Muslim and it is really unfair,” said Khan.
The wearing of full-face coverings, such as niqabs and burqas, is a polarising issue across Europe, with some arguing that they symbolise discrimination against women and should be outlawed. The clothing has been banned in France and Denmark.
Khan, 26, who wears a head scarf – or hijab – also has an essay in the book. In it, she wrote about how mainstream “white feminism” did not fit with the choices she made within her faith.
“For some feminists in the West they see (the hijab) as oppressive – but for people like me who wear it – I am not oppressed. I am empowered by it because I chose to wear it,” she said.
Other authors in the book, which recently hits bookstore shelves, include outspoken Egyptian-American activist Mona Eltahawy, who wrote about misogyny within the Muslim community, as well as her continued fight for women’s rights.
Another contributor, Saima Mir, a former BBC journalist, wrote about being twice divorced, and the negative attitude toward divorce in Muslim Pakistani culture. Her essay questions why the culture judges divorce so harshly.
Khan hopes that after reading the book people will see that Muslim women are not under a “monolithic, single story narrative”, and their voices and stories concerning their faith should be heard.