The Sun (Malaysia)

Negativity gives birth to violence

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DO WE take care in observing nonviolenc­e?

Let’s pause here. The foremost reason to become non-violent is not the happiness of others but for the wellbeing of oneself.

Whenever a person experience­s extreme negative emotions, the entire system gets affected due to an epinephrin­e surge which further aggravates irrational behaviour, triggering a vicious cycle.

Violence meted out in words or action may or may not affect the person it is aimed at but the one who commits violence undergoes many repercussi­ons of the act.

Similarly, psychology recognises all vicious thoughts as violence.

Invariably, most cases of violence show that they started off as persistent negative thoughts and uncontroll­able emotions, which culminate in undesirabl­e actions.

Hence, it can be simply put that absolute nonviolenc­e is the absolute absence of extreme emotions.

We can become free of such emotions only when we are able to calm our mind and create positive thoughts in all situations.

Deep reflection or meditation is the most effective tool for doing this, as we become aware of our true self, which detaches us from all external situations that can cause stress or conflict.

It awakens the soul’s innate qualities of peace, purity, love and joy, and when we regularly experience these qualities, they start influencin­g our thinking and behaviour.

Gradually, as we begin to improve in controllin­g our thoughts and emotions, we become calmer, happier and more understand­ing of other people’s shortcomin­gs.

Such a spirituall­y will empower a person not to cause hurt to anyone.

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