Listen to understand

LISTEN to others the way you would like them to listen to you. We have a basic need to be heard and understood. Disagreements between people arise because of misunderstandings.

Listening to others is an act of charity which earns us goodwill and good wishes. This will indirectly help us play our role in a way that will earn us respect.

When someone is telling me something, I need to listen to the words, as well as the intentions behind the words.

A friend of mine had an acute problem. She spoke for about one hour and I listened without saying a word. At the end, she said she found a solution and thanked me profusely. The power to listen brings understanding.

A beautiful relationship does not depend solely on how well we understand someone, but also how much we give of ourselves in that relationship.

If you have the spirit of understanding everything in a positive way, you will enjoy each and every moment of life, whether it is pressure or pleasure.

We have two ears and one mouth. This means we have to listen twice more than we speak. We must cultivate compassionate listening attitudes.

People want to be heard. By listening, we understand their intentions, and know how to respond to the situation.

Do you let others finish speaking before you begin to talk? Give people who are talking to you your full attention, without judging them or giving them advice. Make eye contact. Don’t rush them. Ask questions when appropriate.