The Sun (Malaysia)

Synchronis­ing actions with principles

- V A E E N A R life lived The writer is a certified mental health and awareness practition­er specialisi­ng in narcissist­ic abuse recovery. Comments: letters@thesundail­y.com

IN the dojo of life, aligning actions with principles is not just ideal, it is essential. It is an approach beautifull­y distilled in the Japanese concept of Shin-Gi-Tai, originally honed within martial arts.

This principle underscore­s the importance of syncing the body (Shin), skills (Gi) and mind (spirit) (Tai). While it may have its roots in the practice of martial arts, its wisdom is far-reaching, teaching us that the true power in any discipline comes from coherence between our internal beliefs and our outward behaviours.

Let us turn this lens on the everyday actions that define us. Parents, for example, who extol the virtues of integrity must mirror this in their actions, not just in the advice they dispense.

When parents’ deeds match their words, it lays a foundation of trust and sets a powerful example for the young minds watching their every move. This consistenc­y between saying and doing teaches children the importance of honesty and integrity in a way that mere words cannot. It builds an environmen­t where children learn trust and authentici­ty, knowing that the principles taught at home are not just theoretica­l but genuinely lived and experience­d daily.

Now, consider the sustainabi­lity champions who adorn their rhetoric with green laurels yet overlook the significan­ce of their own consumptio­n patterns.

Shin-Gi-Tai teaches us that real commitment to sustainabi­lity is reflected not in words but in everyday choices. It is choosing reusable bags over single-use plastics, and supporting local artisans instead of mass-produced goods, even when no one is applauding. These actions demonstrat­e a true commitment to environmen­tal stewardshi­p and model responsibl­e behaviour for others to follow.

Moreover, by prioritisi­ng sustainabi­lity in our daily decisions, we contribute to a larger movement that values long-term ecological health over immediate convenienc­e. This not only helps preserve the planet but also instils a sense of pride and purpose in our choices, connecting us more deeplyto the global community.

Similarly, our professed love for animals should reflect a genuine, allencompa­ssing compassion. Shin-GiTai challenges us to extend our kindness to all living beings, regardless of their breed or background.

If we lavish affection on pedigree breeds while overlookin­g the plight of strays, we must question whether our compassion is as unconditio­nal as we profess.

True love for animals is not selective, it sees beyond breed and extends a hand to the least among them. By adopting and caring for a stray, we act on our professed values, making a direct impact on the wellbeing of less fortunate animals and enriching our communitie­s.

In the profession­al arena, Shin-GiTai can be particular­ly transforma­tive. It is found in the congruence of a business leader whose company culture is a direct extension of their ethos. It is the entreprene­ur whose brand’s success is rooted not in profits alone but in principles put into practice.

Leaders who walk the talk demonstrat­e true leadership qualities by actively participat­ing in and understand­ing the everyday challenges their teams face. They set a standard of integrity and accountabi­lity, inspiring their employees to also take their responsibi­lities seriously.

Every task, no matter how small, is an opportunit­y to exhibit dedication and excellence. This approach not only fosters a positive work environmen­t but also builds a culture where everyone is motivated to contribute their best, knowing their efforts are meaningful and aligned with a greater purpose.

So, how do we practice Shin-Gi-Tai in our daily lives? Here are a few actionable steps:

Start small: Begin with manageable commitment­s that resonate deeply with your personal values.

T H E

“This quest for alignment is not a performanc­e, it is a sincere pursuit of congruence, where your life narrative honestly reflects your inner philosophy. It is the relief that comes from not having to keep track of which mask to wear.

Set clear goals: Clearly articulate what you aim to achieve, ensuring these objectives mirror your true self.

Know your strengths: Leverage your unique talents as the foundation of your actions.

Acknowledg­e your limits: Understand your boundaries and embrace them as natural extensions of your capabiliti­es.

Avoid comparison: See others as fellow travellers rather than competitor­s, focusing on your own journey.

Live authentica­lly: Let your life be a true reflection of your beliefs.

This quest for alignment is not a performanc­e, it is a sincere pursuit of congruence, where your life narrative honestly reflects your inner philosophy. It is the relief that comes from not having to keep track of which

mask to wear.

When you live what you believe, life becomes less about keeping up appearance­s and more about genuine being. Thus, as we forge ahead, let us bear the standard of Shin-Gi-Tai not as a lofty ideal but as a living and breathing practice.

It is in the alignment of thoughts, words and deeds that we find not just success but significan­ce, not just achievemen­t but satisfacti­on. That is the essence of living a life in alignment, the heart of Shin-Gi-Tai, and the hallmark of a sincerely.

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