Death to the notion of gay deaths
House of the Dragon is comfortable with incest and regime change, but draws the line at happy gay couples. Jonny Mahon-Heap says we need to bury the ‘bury your gays’ trope.
Warning: This story includes spoilers for House of the Dragon season one.
Life is fraught in Westeros – what with all the incest, regime change, and fire-breathing dragons – and it’s especially full of strife if you happen to be queer. HBO’s US$200 million (NZ$355m) Game of Thrones prequel, House of the Dragon, succumbed to one of television’s most controversial tropes in recent weeks – establishing a beloved queer storyline, before snatching their happiness away, as the couple met their devastating, violent end.
Referred to as ‘‘bury your gays’’, it has become depressingly common in mainstream television and cinema.
It is popular across the board: in independent films (in the likes of Beach Rats, I AmJonas, and Holding the Man), Oscar-winners (Brokeback Mountain, Philadelphia, and A Single Man), and prestige drama series (most recently in The 100, Killing Eve, The Walking Dead, Grey’s Anatomy).
The disproportionate deaths of queer people, courtesy of the ‘‘bury your gays’’ idea, sits uncomfortably with LGBTQI+ fans for two reasons.
First, it suggests that gay characters are more expendable than their straight counterparts, especially when their death is used for enlightenment or simply to move the chess pieces forward.
Secondly, it suggests that there is something inherently tragic to LGBTQI+ romance and relationships.
House of the Dragon’s gay problem renewed debate about how queer characters are treated on TV, specifically the ways they are killed off to advance the core, heterosexual plot.
In episode five of House of the Dragon, ‘‘bury your gays’’ is employed with brutal abandon, thanks to the especially violent beatdown death of Ser Joffrey Lonmouth (Solly McLeod).
The plot involved a marriage of convenience between Princess Rhaenyra (Milly Alcock) and Laenor Velaryon (Theo Nate) – merging their kingdoms to cement their power, and agreeing to turn a blind eye to each other’s indiscretions.
This would allow Velaryon to continue his relationship with Ser Joffrey Lonmouth – the Princess had a side piece of her own, in the form of knight Ser Criston Cole (Fabien Frankel). When Joffrey informs Criston he knows about their arrangement, all hell breaks loose, and Criston ends up murdering Joffrey in a violent rage.
The trope came into play as a show’s queer characters are often within a fingertip’s distance of happiness. Indeed, the show makes Joffrey’s death take place sooner and in a more violent fashion than in George RR Martin’s book.
House of the Dragon’s gay problem renewed debate about how queer characters are treated on TV, specifically the ways they are killed off to advance the core, heterosexual plot.
What makes this feel uncomfortable for LGBTQI+ fans is that the attitude is endemic to the Game of Thrones world: Westeros has a well-known problematic track record with queer characters.
Life is cheap in Westeros, but more so for its gay men like Oberyn Martell, Loras Tyrell and King Renly who suffered even more violent deaths. It’s especially strange given Westeros is a fictional place, so there’s no reason for the same bigotry and homophobia to exist.
Already, the prequel series centres on the misery of women and queer characters: three separate times we have been shown the brutality of childbirth in especially graphic scenes.
This habit of failing gay characters is distressingly familiar for fans of shows like The 100 or Killing Eve.
The latter, especially, prompted an online outpouring about the dispatching of Villanelle just as she was rewarded her happy ending.
The horrific violence of House of the Dragon